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A Tale of Two Black Male “Christian” Accosters in the State of Maryland

A young covered Sunni Muslim Black American woman was working as a cashier at the Weiss supermarket located at 9250 Washington Blvd N, Laurel, MD 20723.  On this day she was working at the customer service counter and was completing her transaction.  The customer was a black male “Christian” who kept demanding that she give him the change in his hand.  At the time the Muslim cashier was still retrieving the money from the register.  She had an eerie feeling regarding the black male and informed him that she was giving him his change but placing it on the counter.  He made the same demands and she informed him that she could not touch his hand (she already knew he was trying to get photo“more” than just change as supposed to any regular male or female customer).  She then placed the change on the counter, but close to his hand. He reached out and grabbed and tried to hold her hand. The Muslim cashier snatched her hand back while he stated, “I touched your hand, what are you going to do about it?”  She left her station to retrieve a manager and when they returned the black male “Christian” already left the store.

 I had a similar experience with a cashier at a restaurant. However, I didn’t assume that a black male who appeared to be 18 years old or less would try such a tactic with a grown woman—but this dark-skinned black male did so. I tried the same thing this sister did, to retrieve my hand quickly and was disgusted at his actions.  This black male simply laughed as if he accomplished something, well he did, accosting a covered Sunni Muslim woman.  To have a similar story as this sister, at a different place of business different years demonstrates the immoral and lustful nature of today’s black males. This was sexual harassment plain and simple, yet black male privilege and “Christian” privilege, no matter how wrong, offensive and illegal reigns supreme when the target and victim are Sunni Muslim Black American women.

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…At an Airport Earlier This Year

…at a small Michigan airport, a Black “Christian” male Attempted to Knock Me Down

Earlier this year I was returning from the northern midwest back to Maryland. I was to depart from the same local airport I had arrived in a week earlier.

As I entered the automatic external sliding doors eyeing a kiosk to print my e-ticket, there a small unrelated line about two feet away. This line had a black male and what appeared to be a South Asian or Arab standing behind him.

As I proceeded to conduct my transaction via the kiosk the dark skinned black male “Christian” made a point to turn fully around and began speaking to me randomly about his flight is delayed how they are waiting for their matters to be straightened out.

As it was between 6 and 7 a.m., that this odd STRANGER made it an unnecessary point to attempt to engage in an unwanted, unprovoked and unusual communication, especially when he was further away from the kiosk than the guy standing behind him. After I looked up briefly, and I immediately noticed the gentleman behind me said nothing but gave me an emphatic look, I continued to focus on the kiosk screen and followed its instructions. I never responded to the black male and just walked away.

As I arrived to my gate and was awaiting boarding announcements, the same black male out of no where intentionally and harshly “bumps” into my right shoulder with his left and knocks half my body forward. Most of the other airline patrons looked shocked as was. But when I saw it was that same Black ‘Christian’ male I realized that is who most of them are and apparently see women of color, especially Sunni Muslims as property and objects to be disrespected and harmed for their whimsical amusement. This was apparently his irrational revenge for me not engaging in unwanted communications with a Black male stranger.

I can only rationally arrive at one conclusion for the majority of my experiences when I attempt to go about my daily business and routine with the hopes that I can have one day without being sexual harassed and taunted by Black male “Christians” that they have inherent hedonistic and demonic proclivities.

I used to be sympathetic when whites called Black males monkeys–because it is racist in some ways; especially when the reference is about appearances or lineages related to Africa. But I see the validity of this reference with regards to Black “Christian” males not in physical appearance but based on observation: the majority of them today display illogical possessive, simian behavior towards total strangers ie., act like ‘apes in heat,’ yet expect sympathy from the public including women of color, innocent Muslim women and society in general, who they continue to put in unprovoked danger on a daily basis.

I am truly appalled that wherever I am in America, there is one constant: that Black male “Christians” refuse to leave me alone. I am a Sunni Muslim and have no interest in you bothering me.

One thing I do notice is Black ‘Christian’ males go out of their way to violate a Muslim woman’s boundaries and rights. What normal and decent people do, that is mind their own business, conduct their own affairs–Black males feel the need to hinder when it is a Muslim Black woman. One example is when I go to get an oil change at the Valvoline in Glen Burnie, Maryland (Anne Arundel County) and am waited on by a Black male worker and he stares and even moves his head to attempt uninterrupted glances when I look away to be modest. Black males ALWAYS do this to me and fellow Muslims but would not dare engage in this inappropriate behavior if I was a white nun or Amish.

For the most part white men attempt to ensure that they don’t even accidentally trespass in my personal boundaries while Black ‘Christian’ males go OUT OF THEIR way to violate them. From this one can only deduce that Black males believe Muslim Black woman have no rights and are not to be treated as humans–yet they are the same ones yelling about abuse and police brutality when they actually did or are reasonably suspected of doing something wrong or illegal.
More tales from the harassment crypt are on their way, especially in my attempts to avoid Black male “Christians” harassing and attempting to assault me STILL in Howard County, Maryland.
*A Sunni Muslim Black American Woman

Just a Thought: Black Male Hypocrisy and Street Harassment

Black Male Hypocrisy and Street Harassment

Recently, there has been a wave of news reports regarding law enforcement officers harassing and or killing unarmed black men. What these news reports fail to emphasize is that most of the time police are within their rights to question someone who is a suspect when a crime has been freshly committed. It’s interesting that black males who are reasonably suspected of a crime receive protests and outrage from the Black community but the voices of these anti-system protesters when INNOCENT Black women are harassed and sometimes killed as a result of sexual/street harassment are but a faint whisper…

These black women are not guilty or suspected of a crime, yet the black community will yell at the top of their lungs on behalf of many a black
man who was reasonably suspected of such. That is because the black community including Black women of the old guard do not see value in Black women and Black girls. Blacks will teach their daughters to shake things off or it is not a big deal or that is how men are. In other words these crazed enablers attempt to inculcate a sense of guilt, shame or less value in the life worth of Black women and girls including their bodily integrity. Older black women are guilty of this oft times from jealousy of seeing younger generations with greater opportunites in life due to changes in social circumstances. The former black actually enabling Black men in this behavior because their ex-husbands, boyfriends, rapists or baby daddies left them with little mouths to feed, no child support and no self-esteem. So these women call their sons “little man” and emotionally use them to replace the social and psychological void of single motherhood. ‘Little man’ grows up thinking that ANY Black women are to serve whatever needs they have whether it be monetary, sexual and psychological and seek these from total strangers who are Black women. These Black men who usually accuse women of being “emotional” have a grave sense of entitlement reminiscent of their welfare mothers mentality towards the government. They know this mentality is wrong but seek to force society, especially decent Black women into catering to it.  Since the generations of Black women grew stronger and more educated she looks upon Black men with disdain as their predatory behavior has no place in civilized society… 

Black men you decry and whine about law enforcement officers harassing you even when they have cause, yet you harass, stalk, molest, cat-call, deride and abuse women, in particular Black women who are total strangers–have you not heard of karma? or justice? Payback for all those times you harassed and put innocent women safety and lives in danger and imposing post traumatic stress syndrome because you cannot simply two letters of the English alphabet N-O.

Maybe, just maybe the universe is giving you exactly what you deserve.