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BLM Hypocrisy: Most Black “Christians” Violate Civil Rights of Sunni Muslim Black Americans-Protests Against Immigration Ban a Farce: Part VI

BLM Hypocrisy: Most Black “Christians” Violate Civil Rights of Sunni Muslim Black Americans-Protests Against Immigration Ban a Farce-Part VI

As I further described incidents in which a core group of black “Christians” have stalked,
street harassed, accosted and to which I received unprovoked verbal abuse, I would like

the readers to understand that these people are incapable

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 of reform. They cannot be redeemed. As mentioned in a previous post, gang stalking also involves a demonic spirit that has possessed the willing human vessel. For this to have happened, the person had to have already the inclination towards, evil deeds, mischief and enjoy the most heinous and depraved conduct. Satan’s nature is evil, therefore anyone who is his minion, the embodied agents of the anti-Christ and purveyor of wickedness has a nature of evil. No one can expect one whose nature is evil to do anything else but. Do not be fooled by how these black and West African “Christians” spew Jesus’ name, they are not his followers. According to their own doctrine; he was a healer, a person of mercy and kindness and kindness and generosity. Now look at who and what these imposters of what it means to be a human being actually do and are: they cause harm, they are relentlessly offensive, predatory and disrespectful and find joy in the suffering of others. Their nature and consistent actions are the exact opposite. Let’s take a look at the word anti which is a prefix indicating against or to oppose.  Since they are the opposite of the historical figure they claim to reveal, Christ, they are then logically anti-Christ. This is why they are unapologetic, unremorseful, use double speak and silver tongue slick talk to ALWAYS justify their immoral, offensive and criminal behavior. This is who they are, and they cannot be expected to properly integrate into civilized human society because this is what they are not.

So, welcome to Part VI in a series of offensive, disrespectful and oft times criminal acts that I have experienced at the hands of black pagan “Christians.” For a listing of previous incidents and crimes they have perpetrated against me, please follow the following links:

Part I: https://blackmanleaveusalone.wordpress.com/2017/02/28/blm-hypocrisy-most-blackchristians-violate-civil-rights-of-sunni-muslim-black-americans-protests-against-immigrationban-a-farce/

Part II: https://blackmanleaveusalone.wordpress.com/2017/03/19/blm-hypocrisy-most-blackchristians-violate-civil-rights-of-sunni-muslim-black-americans-protests-against-immigrationban-a-farce-part-ii/

Part III: https://blackmanleaveusalone.wordpress.com/2017/03/22/blm-hypocrisy-most-blackchristians-violate-civil-rights-of-sunni-muslim-black-americans-protests-against-immigrationban-a-farce-part-iii/

Part IV: https://blackmanleaveusalone.wordpress.com/2017/05/26/blm-hypocrisy-most-blackchristians-violate-civil-rights-of-sunni-muslim-black-americans-protests-against-immigrationban-a-farce-part-iv/

Part V: https://blackmanleaveusalone.wordpress.com/2017/08/28/blm-hypocrisy-most-blackchristians-violate-civil-rights-of-sunni-muslim-black-americans-protests-against-immigrationban-a-farce-part-v/

The following incidents described below are true events and occurred either in Maryland or Washington, D.C.: The locations described have not been altered.

1. One day I was at the U.S. Post Office located at Jessup, Maryland (Howard County).
There weren’t many people in line. Three people were in front of me. I white woman with a ponytail who was filling out forms, a black male who wreaked of the essence of Baltimore City and further in front of him was a guy being waited on. Now mind you I literally just entered past the glass door in that portion of the lobby. IMMEDIATELY, the photoblack “Christian” male zoomed in on me with his sunken round, scary eyes and asked if I wanted to get in front of him. Now, usually when this happens it is because someone left the line to immediately return or someone sees someone with less material to process and in a hurry. Initially I had no idea why he would ask me that. The white woman was already in front of me and waiting and if any one should have been offered the space it should have been her. I said quickly “no thank you,” as I saw that there was actually no “space” in front of him anyway as he was standing closely behind the guy being waited on. Lastly, when he said it he was using both hands pointing down and I realized he was actually pointing to his genitalia. Never trust them, they are always harboring nefarious motives. The white woman saw what he did with his hand gesture and immediately looked back down to continue to write. I made sure I stood extra feet away from him.

2. It was an early weekday morning when I went to the drive thru of Panera Bread 14806
Baltimore Avenue, Laurel, Maryland (Prince George’s County). A dark-skinned, round-eyed black “Christian” completely messed up my breakfast order. I did not look at the contents of the bag until after I left the drive-thru. I reported the mishap to the manager who invited me to return for a corrected item whenever it was convenient. When I did return, the same dark-skinned black “Christian” cashier waited on me and further messed up another order. She deliberately put a strip of bacon on a VEGETARIAN menu item I purchased. I reported her pattern of racist and bigoted behavior towards me to the manager (who was white) who escalated to a higher authority. He indicated that her behavior was disturbing, getting worse and agreed that if she was capable of doing this intentionally to the same customer then she may be capable of doing even further harm
(I though poisoning). I told him whenever I am there I do not wish for her to handle my food AT ALL. The black male “Christian” co worker tried to justify her behavior and laughed at the drive thru saying she was hormonal (yes she wasn’t hormonal with white customers, what she was: a disgusting bitter black bigoted racist). This is how black “Christians” conduct themselves, possibly assaulting someone by tampering with a food order is a joke to these people. Notice the difference in response between how the black “Christian” male co-worker of the disrespectful black “Christian” female food handler/ cashier and that of the white manager who sought to address their disturbing and possibly criminal behavior.

3. It was early evening when I had to get something from my car in the parking lot in Howard County, Maryland. I noticed a bunch of black “Christian” males chain smoking in between my and another person’s car earlier. The next morning, one of the black males apparently tried to destroy a part of the outer dashboard or set my car on fire. There was a cigarette but that look like it was “put out” into the car’s vinyl which was melted in a small pool and apparently had cooled off on its on because of the weather. My car would not have been so lucky if the incident occurred in the summer.

4. It was a sunny, warm day at the start of autumn where people were gathered for a traditional American funeral in Riverdale, Maryland (Prince George’s County). Two members of the deceased family were outside discussing what would happen, the sorrow and awaiting to greet other friends and family still arriving to the venue. Then, yes you guessed it, an obese, dark-skinned, round eyed black “Christian” with a rotund belly indicating the sin of gluttony rudely interrupted the two. He did not venture to provide condolences or to aide the family in facilitating the day’s events, oh no his primary purpose was to offend the family members. He did not acknowledge the deceased, the deceased parents and ignored ignore any protocols of situational awareness that rational person under the circumstances would demonstrate. He began to boast that he was not only a BLM supporter but a BLM member. He bragged about how he was part of a
popular D.C. (District of Columbia) regional band and began to “pimp” his CD boasting of a new song called Black Lives Matter.  You might think this is a joke, that it was an ignorant black teenager from the street who simply saw a gathering and wanted to take advantage, but no, this was a grown black “Christian” male who would later brag about 

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how he is only for Jesus and then proceed to disrespect the Sunni Muslims present as it was a mixed gathering of attendees of various religious backgrounds. He needed to assert himself in the most disrespectful and erroneous manner that somehow he had a
monopoly on righteousness. Further, this wasn’t a random person, this black “Christian” male was actually a first cousin of the deceased. He did not go to view the body, and remember he did not offer condolences to other immediate family members of the deceased. He obviously didn’t think black lives matter in that situation because his own dead cousin who died of natural causes (the purpose of the gathering) was irrelevant as long as he could get access to as many ears to “pimp” his BLM song and band’s CD. A disgusting and repulsive individual; and no matter how appalling he was, any decent person never thinks that these fake black “Christians” could further disrespect the very lives they claim to whites as being relevant. Yet, they always prove that they can.

5. It was an early weekday morning when I was leaving my car at a business in Howard County, Maryland. I did look to make sure no one would be rushing behind me and there was no one there.  I proceed to walk up a short corridor which did not have security cameras, but did have security cameras on other parts of the building. Not after about six steps there appeared a creepy black “Christian” male stalker who appeared to be plotting to yank and/or kidnap me. The only way in which I was alerted of his sudden appearance near me was his rapid scuttling and he began to say weird and creepy things in a low tone while taking a few steps, “I got an apartment, but you don’t want none of that…” I was shocked, yes I should not be at this point at the conduct of black male
“Christians.” Yes, a total stranger was about to kidnap me in broad daylight, and knowing Howard County, no one would’ve helped. I immediately turned around, bypassed him and walked in another pathway where more people and lighting were. He disappeared.

6. One morning I went to a separate portion of the lobby of a business in Howard County,
Maryland. While I was walking thereto a short, dark-skinned black male mumbled something at me to which I simply ignored. As soon as the door to the lobby closed behind me, it clicked and the same black male “Christian” street harasser had followed me. I yelled, “leave me alone!” This time I nearly punched him but decided it was best for me to immediately left and went to the main portion of the lobby. He followed me again to the main lobby to which I said something in a very stern voice in front of the employee whom he trying to speak to as if everything was normal and that he wasn’t street harassing me. He scuffled away not saying anything further.

7.  It was a clear evening when I was leaving work.  I walked along the sidewalk of 16th and L Streets, NW, Washington, D.C. in order to get to the garage.  I saw at least 10 feet ahead of me a dark-skinned, black male “Christian” who was still in a work uniform, a maroon vest with “WMATA” embroidered on its upper left side.  He was walking in the opposite direction on the same walk and immediate stepped in my direct pathway. In order to avoid this uncouth, disrespectful black male “Christian street harasser, I immediate stepped on the side where the Potbelly sandwich shop is on the corner.  He STILL changed his direction once more as if to block me but stop short of standing directly in front of me.  He yelled, DAYYUUM while looking at me up and down like the predatory jackal he was.  This was a D.C. metro bus driver who apparently think it is ok to street harass pedestrians while still IN UNIFORM.

8.  One early Saturday I was at the counter at the Staples office store located at Address: 9091 Snowden River Pkwy, Columbia, MD 21045. I was speaking to the cashier and waiting for my copies.  An obese, dark-skinned, old black slobbering male was to my left but a few feet away.  I continued to keep my eyes on the cashier though the dirty old nasty black male “Christian” kept doing some weird wiping gesture on the counter towards my direction. I noticed out of the corner of my left eye that he kept inching over in my direction while swiping his hands towards me. While I was getting my paper copies, I immediately vacated my position at the counter and stepped towards the self-service Xerox machines.  It was at this point the nasty old black male pagan “Christian” stopped his movement.

9. One late afternoon I was at the self-checkout at Harris Teeter located at 14702 Baltimore Ave, Towne Centre, Laurel, MD 20707. A dark-skinned black African “Christian” walked up to the checkout station I was in and stood facing me blocking part of the automated screen which itemized your purchase. I initially ignored his unwanted attention as he gave me a sadistic smile. An older Caucasian woman at another checkout line was facing me and she looked at the African male whose back was to her in disapproval.  She quickly figured out what was happening. The kiosk was not able to locate the type of grapes I was weighing with the product i.d.  The African male harasser continued to refused to move and leave me alone.  Thereafter, I gestured for a male employee to assist me with my grocery purchase.  As soon as the HT employee ventured over to assist, the African black male “Christian” walked away.

10.  It was early morning in a self-service parking garage in NW, Washington, D.C.  It is not brilliantly lit as the garage was underground.  I was vacating my car to get to go to work when I noticed a dark-skinned black male blue collar worker immediately walk pass me and is in front about 10 feet in front of me.  When I began to walk I was a still that much feet behind as there is only one direction to exit.  He had already saw me leaving my car, and now heard me began to walk.  All of sudden, he stopped walking and stood there as if he was waiting for me.  Another black male who parked a few cars to the left of mine noticed the same thing I did. I turned and looked at the second black male who shook his head in embarrassment and disapproval.  He understood that this low class black male “Christian” was trying to wait until I was in close enough vicinity to try and “holler” and otherwise street harass a covered Sunni Muslim black woman in a garage where there wouldn’t be many people present.  I did not walk any further until the first black guy finally began walking again and he was out of eyesight.  Early in the morning on a weekday, just trying to get to work.

So these erratic and depraved black “Christians” know that a Sunni Muslim woman has no interest in them nor their lifestyles filled with debauchery, slander and crimes. Although they know they have no chance with Sunni Muslim women, they find joy in causing offense. These black “Christians” are fixated on what they will never have and what a covered Sunni Muslim woman does not want. It reinforces the fact that they are losers, trifling and a menace not to Sunni Muslim women but the broader American society. This core group of black (and West African) “Christians” are not only minions of the anti-Christ, but also the biggest threat to American democracy that the United States has witnessed in decades.

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Another Point to Ponder….

Just something to think about:  black pagan “Christian” male street harassers (as well as photothose of other races) will verbally abuse, accost, sexually-street harass in broad daylight and in public black women minding their own business.  These same black males will, without impunity, brag about their misdeeds and criminal behavior on social media platforms such as YouTube and attempt to justify their right to violate the rights of women. Now, isn’t that something? But wait, there’s more.

NBC logoYET, these same black “Christian”  criminals with their flawed excuses and wicked desperation pretend to be offended and as a result will threaten and disrespect their victims who on various social media platforms expose, vent, discuss these criminals for their acts of disrespect including but not limited to: street harassment, sexual harassment, gang-stalking, accosting and verbal abuse.  So where was the black male’s shame and embarrassment when you were actually street harassing these women in public and violating their constitutional rights and public safety? You commit criminal acts in public, thus you revealed who you really are—a typical criminal.

Let us ponder this:  In the view of the black male sexual deviant it is somehow offensive to them and wrong for a woman to expose these criminals for what they have done in

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the PUBLIC?   This is what we refer to as “ghetto black Christian” logic. It makes absolutely no sense, except to those who were not raised to be a part of or those who choose not to be a part of reasonable society.

Based on an ever-increasing body of proof that these types of black males (also dubbed ‘coons’) are the primary purveyors of Neanderthalism, misogynism and gender-based discrimination  when it comes to decent, everyday, law abiding black women who try to live their lives like any other American without the offensive disruption at the hands of these sexually deviant miscreants.

Think about that for a minute.

(Note:  It’s simple and repulsively erroneous and basically a fallacy: to black males ala single black “Christian” motherhood and the entitlement welfare mentality, women of color, in particular their vaginas are public property and as being a part of the general public, believe they should have access to them.  As crass and descriptive as this statement is; their own actions have demonstrated such. They hate black women and find a self-indulged and sinister joy in disrespecting them every opportunity they see.  Yet, at the same time, need the very women whom they stave off. These are the low-level crab in the barrel blacks who seek to destroy anyone they set their eyes on.)

 

Black Male Street Harassers are the Devil. PERIOD.

There are 1 billion people on the planet and for some reason in the Washington, D.C. metro area, especially Maryland, black male “Christians” will stalk, street harass, accost and assault decent women photowho are total strangers who reject their advances.   To the rational thinking person, it makes absolutely no sense why these black males take rejection so personally, only to solidify that they are insecure and have low-esteem despite the false over the top machismo they manufacture to perpetrate street harassment as a normal function of male genes. Normal, well-adjusted, and well-educated men do not street harass by the way.  So to recap, somehow out of a billion people on the planet, dark-skinned black males choose to attempt to humiliate, disrespect and assault women who had nothing to do with them and continue to not to have anything to do with them, and only by observation verify that they made the right decision in the first place.  These are the black so-called representatives of Christ of today, their logic being if you don’t let me hit on you, have my way with you or sexually assault you, I will disrespect you in the alternative by hurling verbal abuse, non-sensical defense of savage behavior aimed at women who are TOTAL STRANGERS.  The reason why this is normal is because today’s ghetto black “Christians” have no moral compass.  They are coddled by their single black “Christian”, democratic party voting mothers whose example is how to use the government system to their advantage and use men.  Thus, their example in life is to use people, when a discerning, decent woman can by observation detect the corrupted DNA sequence that comprise these low-level black “Christian” males and the same males are met with lack of access, this is when you see the apes in heat go bizerk.  They spiral into hysterical laughter, insults, “..didn’t want you anyway,” “you ain’t all that,” “f*@! you,” and all kinds of verbal drivel to divert the fact that they never had a chance and must now soothe the initially fragile ego. It is utterly fascinating and disturbing at the same time how these dark-skinned black “Christian” males attempt to defend their conduct, all the while the reasonable intelligent woman knows that they street harass because they assume 1) that you are easily accessible (quite satanic that they believe a covered, religious person actually is), 2) the woman that they are targeting is either unintelligent or vulnerable.  There is NO way a good, well-mannered, discerning woman could accept this as normal or flattering behavior.  Remember there are 1 billion people on the planet and some sadistic black male strangers see fit to stalk, harass, disrespect and humiliate a woman who by proper discernment seeks no interaction with these vagrants.  Yet, out of all the millions of people in the country, these black male vagabonds short-circuit and set forth plots to destroy these women who are total strangers.  You cannot tell me that course of behavior is not simply pure evil.

Just to be clear, these are the same types of black males who claim to be part of or support Black Lives Matter, which obviously does not apply to other blacks and focuses on the liberalization of criminal activity and ignores criminal conduct of ghetto blacks upon innocent Black Americans.  Then again, it makes sense they are supporters of such a movement, black women are not any type of beneficiary of it.  So now we venture into why black male street harassers are devils.

cartoon devilOne of the non-theological definition of devil is:  an atrociously wicked, cruel, or ill-tempered person.’ Another definition is ‘mischievous,’ this aptly describes black male street harassers.  Street harassers are troublemakers because they initiate conflict and originate situations of distress where none previously existed.  Trouble is a synonym for mischief, thus by any rational thinking person street harassers are mischief-makers, better known as devils.  So, why would a black “Christian” devil (oxymoron, but hey it’s logical to them) believe that they have the right to street harass a religious person? A covered Sunni Muslim black American woman?  It is easy, let us take a look at opposites, good v. bad, wicked v. righteous, devil (deceiver, peacemaker, someone who causes distress) v. someone at peace or minding their business or who would not even consider such a disrespectful beggar as worthy of their time.  Ill-tempered? Check. Please refer to this post:

https://blackmanleaveusalone.wordpress.com/tag/not-fooling-anyone/

 Since most street harassers are black males and street harassers are devils, thus most of today’s black males = devils, minions of Satan.

A Tale of Two Black Male “Christian” Accosters in the State of Maryland

A young covered Sunni Muslim Black American woman was working as a cashier at the Weiss supermarket located at 9250 Washington Blvd N, Laurel, MD 20723.  On this day she was working at the customer service counter and was completing her transaction.  The customer was a black male “Christian” who kept demanding that she give him the change in his hand.  At the time the Muslim cashier was still retrieving the money from the register.  She had an eerie feeling regarding the black male and informed him that she was giving him his change but placing it on the counter.  He made the same demands and she informed him that she could not touch his hand (she already knew he was trying to get photo“more” than just change as supposed to any regular male or female customer).  She then placed the change on the counter, but close to his hand. He reached out and grabbed and tried to hold her hand. The Muslim cashier snatched her hand back while he stated, “I touched your hand, what are you going to do about it?”  She left her station to retrieve a manager and when they returned the black male “Christian” already left the store.

 I had a similar experience with a cashier at a restaurant. However, I didn’t assume that a black male who appeared to be 18 years old or less would try such a tactic with a grown woman—but this dark-skinned black male did so. I tried the same thing this sister did, to retrieve my hand quickly and was disgusted at his actions.  This black male simply laughed as if he accomplished something, well he did, accosting a covered Sunni Muslim woman.  To have a similar story as this sister, at a different place of business different years demonstrates the immoral and lustful nature of today’s black males. This was sexual harassment plain and simple, yet black male privilege and “Christian” privilege, no matter how wrong, offensive and illegal reigns supreme when the target and victim are Sunni Muslim Black American women.

News Article: The University of Louisville is hosting an event next month aimed at combating sexual and street harassment

https://www.usnews.com/news/best-states/kentucky/articles/2017-03-29/uofl-to-host-event-to combat-street-harassment

 The University of Louisville is hosting an event next month aimed at combating sexual and street harassment.

March 29, 2017, at 2:28 a.m.

LOUISVILLE, Ky. (AP) — The University of Louisville is hosting an event next month aimed at combating sexual and street harassment.

The university says the “Cards Against Catcalling” event is scheduled April 6 from 6 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. EDT in the Red Barn at the Belknap Campus. The event will be hosted by the Women 4 Women Student Board and the UofL Women’s Center.

The event is part of the national Anti-Street Harassment Week, organized by Stop Street Harassment, a usnews.pngnonprofit group working to end gender-based street harassment.

Hadley Hendrick, a member of Women 4 Women and chair of “Cards Against Catcalling,” says street harassment is a common problem for women, minorities and members of the LGBT community.

The event will be free and open to the public.

Copyright 2017 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.

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Ebony Magazine Article: Fellas, Street Harassment is Never the Way to Hit on Women: March 28, 2017

Before I post the article, I would just like to note that for years women have been saying they are tired of nasty n*#@!s jumping in their faces. I can say as a covered Sunni Muslim Black American woman that each time a black male does this I pray for God’s wrath to descend upon you for your blatant disrespect of His creation. Your dissociative mental disorder has erroneously convinced you because someone may have the same color spectrum as you that equals they are property to be snatched.  I find Black “Christian” males today totally gross, mentally ill, nasty and sick in the head. Everyone knows that in general a covered Sunni Muslim woman will not give a black “Christian” male an opportunity to wiggle their sinister selves into their life–. So you continue to mock both your alleged beliefs and that of your target. Then you wonder why certain black communities aren’t ‘blessed’ with progress. You retard it. No one wants to help people who are blatant criminals and do not even respect women and children who are minding their business.  Women have said it disrupts their day, places them in fear for their life (rightfully so, as some black women are killed for rejecting black male STRANGERS), even other laymen have warned you, the only thing is left is a ramp up in enforcing the law against you–because you surely believe you are above it.  Anyway, here’s the article and by the way it’s true–it’s black males who do this, so when  you wind up in jail; you have received your just desserts.

It is evident, today’s black males are the problem.


http://www.ebony.com/love-sex/relationships-cat-calling-dating#axzz4cdaAEWs7

Fellas, Street Harassment is Never the Way to Hit on Women

[Opinion] Instead of yelling at her from afar, perhaps you should attend events that women interested in men go to

by Lincoln Anthony Blades, March 28, 2017  

Recently, while browsing through my Twitter timeline, I came across a raw, heartfelt and insightful thread from @PiaGlenn that very plainly described everything wrong with street harassment, while simultaneously debunking the BS ideology that approaching women in the street leads mostly to fun and enjoyable interactions.

Hey fam, I’ve just had a #YouOKSis moment that I’m choosing to share

(Fair warning: it’s not pleasant)

— @PiaGlenn (@PiaGlenn) March 18, 2017

As a man, reading that sent me through a world of emotions. Shame, disgust, anger, rage and sadness all coursed through my soul. After the spectrum of emotions came a sense of exhaustion. Although I didn’t know anything about this woman or her followers, I could already guess what her mentions looked like, consisting of dudes talkin’ about, “So just because you had one bad experience…,””Not all men…,” and “If we don’t harass y’all in the street, how the HELL we supposed to meet?!”

I didn’t even bother to read the comments on her viral post and I was already tired of the excuses men would use to attempt to justify our horrific, abusive behavior because I’ve heard it all before. 

I have literally lost count of the amount of times I’ve heard dudes attempt to elucidate the necessity of bothering random women “on road.” But there’s a point that Pia touched on that is very similar to the retort I’ve been hitting these dudes with for the past decade: we don’t give a DAMN about maintaining the integrity of informal, random encounters that can potentially lead to long-lasting relationships, engagements, marriages and children.

You want to say whatever you want to whoever you want and you’re *entitled* to a positive response, aren’t you, big fella?

— @PiaGlenn (@PiaGlenn) March 18, 2017

If the pro-street-harassment crowd of men were so damn interested in meeting women, we would spend far less time doing stupid sh*t like whispering, “Pssst, yo blue dress, lemme holla at you” which has an inherently low success rate. We would do things more apt to meeting women like actually attending events that women go to where many are either trying to meet men, or are at least open to the idea of being approached by a man.

Personally, I’ve been writing about sex and relationships for 7 years, I’ve been a frequent guest of many different relationship panel events for 6 years and I’ve been throwing my own events (relationship conversation parties, as well as grown games nights) for the past 5 years. Whenever I was booked to speak at events, the crowd would be full of women interested in meeting men. Whenever I threw my own events, the crowd would be damn near full of women looking for good dudes. It got to the point where I had to organize a local thinktank just to find ways to convince men to come out and meet these groups of single, successful, gorgeous women.

Whenever I brought that point up to men, telling them that it’s absolutely insane that they’re defending street harassment at a time when women are actually open to being approached, they would tell me about how unapproachable women are at events and how desperate they are. The problems persist everywhere from Oakland to New York to Toronto. Whether it’s speed dating, a games night, dance workout class, etc., women came out in droves and dudes were almost nowhere to be found – until the event let out.

Frowsy dudes would swarm on the women trying to walk back to their cars. These days, the only place men far outnumber women in attendance is dank, musty, nightclubs.

I’ve never understood the point of harassing women in the street, honking at women who pass by, or trying to chat women up in the passenger side of my best friend’s ride. It all seems pointless and embarrassing to me. That’s not to say that I haven’t seen it work, because anyone who has ever been to a Caribana or the Labor Day parade has seen guys stand in the middle of the road and shoot successful long-range shots and hit nothing but net. But when the majority of our sisters are saying that street harassment is nothing more than a scary annoyance, it’s time for us men to shut the hell up and listen.