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Three Characteristics of Black Male Street Harassers

In the State of Maryland, especially in counties such as Howard, Prince George’s Anne Arundel and Baltimore County (and of course Baltimore City) there are three distinguishable traits that any decent woman can discern from the typical black male street harasser.  They are quite reminiscent of what normal functioning, intelligent children are taught and grasp the concept of basic respect of human beings who may cross their paths in normal everyday settings.

1) The black male street harassers a/k/a apes in heat have nothing “nice” or proper to say to their intended targets. [If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all].  They are flustered and frustrated and because of the lack of intelligence they are dumbfounded as to why a decent woman not only rejects their inappropriate (and criminal) behavior but is simply disgusted and repelled by it as well.  No worries, the black male street harasser will pursue his own form of self therapy by designating decent women who reject them as “crazy,” “stuck up,” and “she ain’t right.” Yes, to these social vultures a decent woman who demands to be treated with respect and not have unattractive, disrespectful, ghetto black boys further disrupt her personal space or her day is dismissively deemed by them is not right. PSA to black male street harassers: You are not right! You disrespect religious women, decent women (regardless of belief system) and women who mind their business.  You cannot handle rejection because you are constantly coddled by your Black “Christian’ mother who sees you as either her free ride ticket ala welfare or her mate replacement due to single motherhood.

Therefore, your only line of attack is to insult, in the more ways than one. You see putting your hands on a TOTAL STRANGER is beyond an insult, it is criminal. Verbally abusing a woman because she has ABSOLUTELY no interest in your kind is an insult. The world does not revolve around you. Decent women of color should not have to tolerate your abuse, sexual harassment and sexual assault just because you think “she’s cute.” You are disgusting and reptilian and you deserve every form of disdain society has to offer.  Yet, you have the unintelligent and misinformed audacity to insult decent, innocent women who know better than to tolerate your ignorance, foolishness and crimes.   Get over yourself and stay out of our faces:  especially the ugly, dark-skinned, uneducated, uncivilized black males in Howard County and Prince George’s County, Maryland.  You are the reason white flight is rampant. Please also note that 98% today’s dark-skinned black male “Christians” who street harass.

2) They have an INABILITY to keep their hands to themselves.  [Keep your hands to yourself].  There are subtle, not so subtle and extreme behaviors on this criminal spectrum.  The first is to pretend to “brush” by their intended victims.  Yes, black males at Howard County Library on Cradlerock Road, Columbia, Maryland including the old black male librarian with the greying beard is guilty of this.  Of course they only do this to black female patrons.  They will also do this at grocery stores, box stores, restaurants, any place there is a female and a black male she will likely be a victim.  Of course there is the most obvious, trying to touch you:  standing too close behind you in the line as they prepare to “dry” rape you. Reaching out to GRAB a woman’s arm or hand while she uses a computer or walking on a public sidewalk.  The most obvious is the grope; this touching is distinguishable from the just mentioned one as this is geared towards a woman’s private parts (including that which lies below her décolletage).  Black males today (this is particularly acute among the dark-skinned ones) are generally black devils.  They are in a constant wicked mode of sniffing, plotting and trying to “slide up next to” a TOTAL stranger in order to street harass and rape his intended female target.  Black males in Maryland are naturally uncouthe, sinister, disrespectful, annoying, social rapists who try to play the victim card (as a black male) when in reality they are the criminals, the perpetrators and predators let loose on decent society where no woman is safe. Broad daylight, makes no difference, it just emboldens them as civil society remain in shock that they are allowed to roam the streets without repurcussion for their actions.  Make sure that there are consequences and file charges for EVERY offense these black predators do. Street harassment, sexual assault, verbal harassment, stalking, are all not only immnoral (of course they are not bound by a center of ethos) but it is ILLEGAL.  Make them pay until they can no longer be amongst civilized society.

3) Black “Christian” males in today’s Maryland like to buck their eyes and attempt to intimidate and make women feel uncomfortable when they are in your presence. [It’s not polite to stare]. There is a saying that the eyes are the window into one’s soul.  It is can be an intimate exchange or an invasive tactic.  The purpose of this black male tactic is to make a women feel vulnerable. These bug eyes dark skinned black males use your moment of feeling uncomfortable or intimidated as the prime opportunity to pounce on a woman’s natural fear of them.  Black males respect no women in Maryland, they may be hesitant towards white women only because white males will lynch them, but they still don’t respect them.  Women in the eyes of the majority of ugly, dark-skinned black males are the object to be abused, conquered and destroyed for their Satanic jollies and thumb about their hateful and disrespectful exploits on their technological devices.

It would be easy to say to simply ignore it, but this is today’s dark-skinned black males. They will literally jump in your face, get loud and speak to a total stranger with inappropriate familiarity in order to disrespect you because they hate themselves. Notice that these societal rejects and low brow Negroes RARERLY if ever do this to white women. Black males have no compunction about disrespecting Black women, doesn’t matter if you are Catholic, Baptist, a covered Muslim, black males hate that from which they came and believe that because of the mistaken coddling that their black mothers poorly indoctrinated into them, black woman who are total strangers owe the same to them. When you do not you will be erroneously and heartlessly accused of “thinking that you’re white” when all you are doing is being a decent woman.  Black male street harassers live their lives as low-life animals and realize that animals belong with animals and thus they are faced with the reality of their own lack of humanity.

Black man get out of my face, stop being disrespectful and most of all: Black man leave me alone.

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Words of Note: Spring 2016-Maryland Edition

cartoon lazy coonWords of Note: Spring 2016-Maryland Edition

Congratulations! You have reached Spring 2016, unfortunately it is the start of a new season of street harassment via Black “Christian” males. This is what you have to look forward to:

Black “Christian” males who used the fall and winter seasons to stalk, plot and plan who would be their targets in the State of Maryland which results in:

  1. Black males who are TOTAL STRANGERS knocking on your apartment or house door pretending that they belong in your area as to not arouse suspicion of neighbors. Be prepared to notify your leasing manager, local police and neighborhood watch of these vagrants. They are particular adamant if they assume that you are single.
  2. Black males who are TOTAL STRANGERS following you in the parking lot. The warning used to be to never carry too many bags and to have your keys readily available. It does not matter if it is night time or daytime, morning or afternoon, if you have handfuls of bags or just your purse, they will dart in your immediate direction seeking to intimidate, street harass and accost you. Good luck on calling 911, especially if in Prince George’s or Howard County, Maryland, sometimes the non-emergency line is just as busy as the regular emergency line.
  3. Standing in line: Whether it is your local grocer, Royal Farms, IHOP or the gas station these low level Black male stalkers will attempt to “dry rape” you in broad daylight and in the public’s eye by standing too close behind you in line. When you move to increase space, they will do the same to shorten it. You are a woman and to the black male you are nothing but a vessel for him to plot to land his “Johnson” by use of force.
  4. Black males will position themselves strategically on walls or front entrances of businesses in order to be in prime location to street harass female customers who enter business establishments.
  5. Black males will be (especially on Route 1) stopping in the middle of traffic while the light is green in order to get your attention. They cause accidents or nearly do so because they ‘break their necks’ trying to look at women who are driving in traffic trying to get from one point to another.

Black males who may have finally realized that street/sexual harassment will not be tolerated either by neighborhood support, the good Samaritan intervening, a restraining order or your local rental office being placed on notice will act in the following manner:

  1. If you are successful in warding off the street harassment, you will be verbally abused. Anything from being called “stuck up” a “b****,” or having your heterosexuality questioned because you have refused to be treated like a piece of meat.
  2. These Black male losers will still try to seek your attention by literally standing in your vicinity in places you may frequent, that is the Laundromat, grocery stores, etc. and state in a very audible tone: my wife [this and that…], or my girlfriend, or my fiancé—as if you are to be offended that you were able to dismiss a low level, immoral, adulterous, demonic Black “Christian” who now has let the public know that he was up to no good, has no moral compass and is nothing but a hound dog. Let’s explore. If you had these supposed partners, it is a reflection on YOU that you street harass decent women who are minding their business nor did not solicit any attention from you. It shows that you hate and disrespect all women, both to the ones who claim to be committed to and the ones you attempted to get attention from. Unfortunately, Black males are proud of these stereotypes because they have no substance.  They do not build communities or attempt to become rulers of the world.  Their primary long term goals in life consist of buying sneakers, jeans, fast car and sniffing around women to see which ones they can successfully clinch their uncouth paws into and destroy via sexual assault and street harassment (and numerous other crimes); and wonder why the world has little to no respect for their existence nowadays.

Black males in Maryland you are the systemic problem in today’s Black community.  These Black “Christian” males believe street harassment is some sort sport while you attempt impose your immorality, licentiousness and post traumatic stress syndrome.

Black “Christian” males in Maryland have devolved into the low level strangers who continue to purvey the stereotype of laziness, sloth, sexual deviancy and inherent criminality through various illegal and immoral activities and this includes sexual/street harassment.

To all women be safe and vigilant and if you live in Maryland, be especially aware of black “Christian” males in your vicinity.  You are not safe when they are present. It is a harsh reality but the truth will keep you alive and hopefully safe.

Black man leave me alone.

This is What I See When a Black “Christian” Man Street Harasses Me (Including the Thinly Veiled “Hi, how you doin’?”)

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Yes, Black “Christian” males: when you street harass decent women you are viewed as out of control, subhuman beasts. And rightly so.

*A (covered) Sunni Muslim Black American Woman

Harassed by Black Male at Traffic Light: Prince George’s County

One mid morning I was driving southbound on a major route (I cannot recall the route number)in Prince George’s County which intersects with Patuxent Parkway. while stopped on red at one of the traffic lights, I heard a fair skinned black male yelling at me from the passenger side of a black sedan.

Initially, I thought my gas cap door was opened or something only to realize that this black male was yelling in the middle of traffic for my phone number. Since I already had my shades on I turned back to look straight ahead though I glanced when I saw him throw an object at my car.  Though I saw it, I didn’t hear it, so I concluded he missed my car.

When I arrived at the Target parking lot I decided to take a look-see over the left side of my car. Lo and behold the black male harasser had threw a wad of chewed gum which was stuck at on the front side, appearing moist and strands of gum streaked alongside. Luckily I carry ‘Goo Gone’ (from Home Depot) in my car and had some napkins which I used to get most of it off.

This is what black males do, attempt to destroy personal property and mock you when you reject their advances. Black man, not interested. 

Another Black Woman’s Story: Black Men Keep Sexually/Street Harassing Her

Disgusting Black Men Never Stop…They carry the mark of Satan–troublemaking, debauchery and sinister lust. Here is her story:

http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/name-baby-rant-street-harassment-discrimination/

“My Name is NOT Baby,” a Rant About Street Harassment and Discrimination
MARCH 11, 2014 | ** GUEST AUTHOR ** |

One day, I was standing outside of a store waiting for my dad to meet me. While I was waiting, I made a phone call to my mom. While I was on the phone, I was approached my a man who was obviously more than twice my age who tried to engage me in a separate conversation. “Hey baby. I like them pants. What you up to tonight?” While there are so many ways in which I could have responded to him, I settled for a simple “I can’t talk right now, I’m on the phone” which he followed up with “Damn, girl I’m just trying to get to know you”. I suppressed a severe eye-roll and politely asked him to please leave me alone. When I didn’t respond to his advances, he proceeded to berate me with so many variations of “prude bitch”, my head began to spin.

I can’t walk down the street, pump gas into my car, shop in a grocery store, even sit in church without a man feeling entitled to harass me. They tell me to smile, they follow me around, they stare and whistle and honk their horns at my backside. They reach out and touch me without my permission.  Some even take pictures!

When I don’t acknowledge the man cat calling me from across the street, I’m a Stuck Up Bitch. All because I inform a man that my name is not “baby“, “sweetie“, or “ma“. I’m told “If I don’t want attention, I shouldn’t dress so attractively.” Some would say I shouldn’t be offended. This isn’t harassment, this is a compliment. If my boss, a strange man on the street, a security guard or store clerk wants to talk to me or stare at me or compliment me or follow me around, it’s just because they think I’m attractive. I should be honored. Shouldn’t I?

Let me go on record and say no, I shouldn’t be honored. This type of behavior isn’t a compliment, it’s harassment. I’m not obligated to smile just because a man wants me to. I don’t exist for the visual pleasure of men. I’d don’t have to speak to satisfy a man’s physical attraction to me or perceived “courage” in approaching me. And I’m not a bitch just because I don’t want to talk to a man I have no interest in.

Society has not changes much since the days in which Nathaniel Hawthorne penned “The Scarlet Letter“. Women are still judged harshly for our actions (and for our inaction). Only instead of having embroidered letters slapped upon our breast, we are instead being stamped with #hashtags in social media and with harsh labels from society and our peers.

Women in bad romantic relationships are labeled #SideLineChicks, #Sluts, #Hoes, etc. As if being in their predicament represents a character flaw on their part, not on the man who created the love triangle. A women who is assertive, aggressive, and is confident is labeled a #Bitch or #Bossy. A woman who enjoys sex and explores her sexuality is called a #Whore. When I don’t want to give my phone number to a stranger, I’m #StuckUp. A man being the boss, having sex as much sex as he wants, or wanting to be left alone is labeled a man.

What gives men the perceived right to label, ridicule, harass and demean women they don’t even know? Why is the biological fact that they are “men” enough for them to communicate with and about women in any kind of way? People say “that’s just how boys act” … “oh, he’s just being a man”. To me that’s barely an excuse. How can a man born of a woman be naturally inclined to treat women with disrespect? Sometimes, people assume I’m just a jaded woman. They tell me “you must not like men, that’s all” or they ask me if a man hurt me in my past. Why does there have to be something wrong with me just because I insist on being respected?

I tell people I’m a feminist and they look at me with confusion. What is a feminist, anyway? Many people (male and female) hear the word and they think of a radical bra-burning, man hating, ugly, lesbian who is under the delusion that they’re lives and treatment need to be equal.

That’s both offensive and limiting. Women are diverse. Our wants are diverse yet men assume we are all the same and treat us as such. A feminist is someone who believes in the social equality of all people regardless of gender. A feminist is someone who believes in respect for another human being regardless of gender. A feminist believes that being a man does not make you more powerful or more entitled to me, a woman. But I’m finding out now that people who hold this belief are few and far between.

Sexism is another unbelievable term. Even today, men are startled by the idea that women are oppressed anywhere outside of the Middle East. Why is it so unbelievable that in 2014 there is still harassment and discrimination against women? Why is my word and experience not enough to prove that the tragedy still exists?

It saddens me to admit that most of this discrimination and harassment comes from black men, my so called “brothers”.  How am I supposed to be responsible for lifting your spirits in a world that beats down upon you while you, the black man, is constantly berating me? Not only must I bear your suffering, but I must suffer under you. That’s not to say men of other races are excluded from harassment epidemic. When white men approach me the first thing they comment on are my lips, my hair, my hips, my breast and how they “always wanted a black women” as if all women of color are interchangeable and to have one is to have us all. As if having me at all is even an option, just because you want me. As if!

I confess to feeling a little depressed and powerless in these scenarios because in reality, I am somewhat powerless. Sometimes I feel like the only beings with the power to make any real change in the way women are treated and reacted to are the main ones responsible for the oppression. Women’s issues are everyone’s issues. And yet I feel constantly alone and criticized for crying wolf and calling men out on their privilege and outrageous behavior.

To the men out there, in case you still need convincing of your innate privilege given to you simply by being male (especially if you happen to be a white upper middle class male over 5’7″), allow me to break it down:

No reporter ever asks men how they plan to balance both their family and their career. (That’s a woman’s concern, right?)
Should you decide to run for office, political commentators will have nothing to say about what you wear to the podium.
Your value and intelligence are not directly linked to your sexual expression or lack thereof.
What goes on in your reproductive system is not under government regulation.
You can expect to see a group of men on a reality TV show who are not fighting. (“Bad Boys Club” just wouldn’t sell)
You can walk down the street at night (or anytime of day, really) and not be concerned for your sexual safety. (Do they make anti-rape, boxers yet?)
You can go nearly anywhere in the world and be allowed to wear what you want, go where you want, ride a bike, vote, go to school, work, pretty much do anything you want because you have a penis.
You aren’t criticized or called some variation of whore for appearing in public in minimal clothes (go shirtless if you want to, guys. Show off those abs!)
You can feel the freedom and right and even responsibility to comment on this article and tell me that my life experience and my opinions written here are wrong.
I have no ending for this piece. Just a plea for people to treat me (and others) with the respect I deserve not because I’m cute, or because I yelled at you and demanded that you speak to me with respect. But because I’m a human being. Not an object of your affection existing for your protection and attention That’s all.

Black Man Nearly Exposed Himself-Target off Route 198, Laurel Maryland

Due to safety concerns I do not share stories in chronological order. Incidents that I have experienced could have occurred yesterday, a month ago or a year ago. These are the trials I deal with being a practicing Sunni Muslim and Black American woman in America at the hands of Christians, particularly Black men:

One cold Fall day I was returning to my car after picking up some items from the Target off 198 in Laurel, Maryland near Ashley Apartments. As I was warming up my car, I decided to jot some notes down when all of a sudden a black male in his twenties with a baseball cap and urban streetwear began humping the driver’s side door and window. I was startled an made sure my doors were locked he had lifted his shirt baring his torso and the upper part of his boxer shorts and yelled for money yet stated he disnt have a gun. This happened in one minute. I turned and drove my car next to a 50+ while male sitting in bis car who appeared to have seen what happened and the black male ran away.

When I looked around the parking lot not only was I shocked that this Black male conducted himself this way but in broad daylight in a parking lot. I looked at the previous parking spot I was in and figured at an angle that he must’ve been watching me from the 7-eleven and ran from there.

Why would a Black Christian male think it was ok to approach a covered Sunni Muslim woman who is also Black American in this manner. Why would this ignorant beast assumed I would respind to him? As an adult I can say with statistical confidence that 98% of occurences and involuntary i teractions with black men have been negative. Please get this through your head. Sunni Muslim Black women due not want uou unless they are 1) poorly educated 2) from the inner city and act just as ignorant as you are.

You are disgusting and know that you will likely go to hell for all your sins including your disrespectful and predatory behavior against innkcent Black women.

Black man leave me alone, you do not belong amongst the civilized.

While on a return flight from JFK

On a return flight I was at JFK airport in New York and was apparently lost in a corridor. A black luggage handler, while walking with an old white male patron in the opposite direction JFK put his hand on my shoulder. In response I told him not to touch me. Yes, a covered Sunni Muslim who is a Black woman. No woman deserves to be touched by a stranger but this Black male went out of his way to disrespect me especially in the presence of a white man.

He begans to yell AT ME (because apparently black men think women are property or objects and have no rights to their bodily integrity) because I refuse to be disrespected, nonetheless by a stranger. You could tell he was an inner city minimum wage worker whom no one would keep company with.  Way to go black man.