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Buffalo News Article (March 25, 2017): Decker Street man accused of harassing woman in damaging tirade

Decker Street man accused of harassing woman in damaging tirade

<!–By –>By Matt Gryta Published

http://buffalonews.com/2017/03/25/decker-street-man-accused-harassing-woman-damaging-tirade/

A Decker Street man is accused of harassing a woman and hurling bricks at her car Saturday morning.

Mark E. McCarthy, 33, was charged with felony third-degree criminal mischief and second-degree harassment. He was arrested by Buffalo police at Delaware Avenue and Nottingham Terrace about 10 a.m.

Police said the suspect forced his way into the victim’s car at a gas station at Delaware and Amherst Street, then ordered her to drive to her residence on Delaware. After they arrived, police said, the woman quickly got into her house. In response, the suspect hurled bricks at both front and rear windshields of the car, as well as the trunk, police added.

Three Characteristics of Black Male Street Harassers

In the State of Maryland, especially in counties such as Howard, Prince George’s Anne Arundel and Baltimore County (and of course Baltimore City) there are three distinguishable traits that any decent woman can discern from the typical black male street harasser.  They are quite reminiscent of what normal functioning, intelligent children are taught and grasp the concept of basic respect of human beings who may cross their paths in normal everyday settings.

1) The black male street harassers a/k/a apes in heat have nothing “nice” or proper to say to their intended targets. [If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all].  They are flustered and frustrated and because of the lack of intelligence they are dumbfounded as to why a decent woman not only rejects their inappropriate (and criminal) behavior but is simply disgusted and repelled by it as well.  No worries, the black male street harasser will pursue his own form of self therapy by designating decent women who reject them as “crazy,” “stuck up,” and “she ain’t right.” Yes, to these social vultures a decent woman who demands to be treated with respect and not have unattractive, disrespectful, ghetto black boys further disrupt her personal space or her day is dismissively deemed by them is not right. PSA to black male street harassers: You are not right! You disrespect religious women, decent women (regardless of belief system) and women who mind their business.  You cannot handle rejection because you are constantly coddled by your Black “Christian’ mother who sees you as either her free ride ticket ala welfare or her mate replacement due to single motherhood.

Therefore, your only line of attack is to insult, in the more ways than one. You see putting your hands on a TOTAL STRANGER is beyond an insult, it is criminal. Verbally abusing a woman because she has ABSOLUTELY no interest in your kind is an insult. The world does not revolve around you. Decent women of color should not have to tolerate your abuse, sexual harassment and sexual assault just because you think “she’s cute.” You are disgusting and reptilian and you deserve every form of disdain society has to offer.  Yet, you have the unintelligent and misinformed audacity to insult decent, innocent women who know better than to tolerate your ignorance, foolishness and crimes.   Get over yourself and stay out of our faces:  especially the ugly, dark-skinned, uneducated, uncivilized black males in Howard County and Prince George’s County, Maryland.  You are the reason white flight is rampant. Please also note that 98% today’s dark-skinned black male “Christians” who street harass.

2) They have an INABILITY to keep their hands to themselves.  [Keep your hands to yourself].  There are subtle, not so subtle and extreme behaviors on this criminal spectrum.  The first is to pretend to “brush” by their intended victims.  Yes, black males at Howard County Library on Cradlerock Road, Columbia, Maryland including the old black male librarian with the greying beard is guilty of this.  Of course they only do this to black female patrons.  They will also do this at grocery stores, box stores, restaurants, any place there is a female and a black male she will likely be a victim.  Of course there is the most obvious, trying to touch you:  standing too close behind you in the line as they prepare to “dry” rape you. Reaching out to GRAB a woman’s arm or hand while she uses a computer or walking on a public sidewalk.  The most obvious is the grope; this touching is distinguishable from the just mentioned one as this is geared towards a woman’s private parts (including that which lies below her décolletage).  Black males today (this is particularly acute among the dark-skinned ones) are generally black devils.  They are in a constant wicked mode of sniffing, plotting and trying to “slide up next to” a TOTAL stranger in order to street harass and rape his intended female target.  Black males in Maryland are naturally uncouthe, sinister, disrespectful, annoying, social rapists who try to play the victim card (as a black male) when in reality they are the criminals, the perpetrators and predators let loose on decent society where no woman is safe. Broad daylight, makes no difference, it just emboldens them as civil society remain in shock that they are allowed to roam the streets without repurcussion for their actions.  Make sure that there are consequences and file charges for EVERY offense these black predators do. Street harassment, sexual assault, verbal harassment, stalking, are all not only immnoral (of course they are not bound by a center of ethos) but it is ILLEGAL.  Make them pay until they can no longer be amongst civilized society.

3) Black “Christian” males in today’s Maryland like to buck their eyes and attempt to intimidate and make women feel uncomfortable when they are in your presence. [It’s not polite to stare]. There is a saying that the eyes are the window into one’s soul.  It is can be an intimate exchange or an invasive tactic.  The purpose of this black male tactic is to make a women feel vulnerable. These bug eyes dark skinned black males use your moment of feeling uncomfortable or intimidated as the prime opportunity to pounce on a woman’s natural fear of them.  Black males respect no women in Maryland, they may be hesitant towards white women only because white males will lynch them, but they still don’t respect them.  Women in the eyes of the majority of ugly, dark-skinned black males are the object to be abused, conquered and destroyed for their Satanic jollies and thumb about their hateful and disrespectful exploits on their technological devices.

It would be easy to say to simply ignore it, but this is today’s dark-skinned black males. They will literally jump in your face, get loud and speak to a total stranger with inappropriate familiarity in order to disrespect you because they hate themselves. Notice that these societal rejects and low brow Negroes RARERLY if ever do this to white women. Black males have no compunction about disrespecting Black women, doesn’t matter if you are Catholic, Baptist, a covered Muslim, black males hate that from which they came and believe that because of the mistaken coddling that their black mothers poorly indoctrinated into them, black woman who are total strangers owe the same to them. When you do not you will be erroneously and heartlessly accused of “thinking that you’re white” when all you are doing is being a decent woman.  Black male street harassers live their lives as low-life animals and realize that animals belong with animals and thus they are faced with the reality of their own lack of humanity.

Black man get out of my face, stop being disrespectful and most of all: Black man leave me alone.

Places Where Black Males Position Themselves to Sexually Accost and Street Harass Women of Color in Maryland

The laundromat. Yes, where those who want get chores completed in a timely fashion. The laundromat on Route 1, Laurel, Maryland where the old Office Depot was. Early in the morning you will find the stereotypical dirty old black Negro whistling and attempting to accidentally ‘bump’ into an unaware Black woman so they can get their sadistic jollies. Disgusting. In particular there is a nasty dirty old tall black male with glasses and wears a Kango looking hat who bothers certain Black women. He is the typical Black “Christian” male of Maryland. Passive aggressive yet obvious street harassment he is likely a registered sex offender, so women who do their laundry there take note.

The public library. Whether it is the Laurel Public Library off Sandy Spring Road, East Columbia Library off Cradlerock Way or the Howard County Main Library you will find young things, dirty old white, black and African “Christian” males street harassing Black women trying to use the facility to be productive.

Restaurants.
Parking lots.
Target. The list goes on.

The vast majority of today’s black males are beyond nasty. The eyeball rape and street harass Black women in order to assert control over that which he has no control. They are a social disease that replicates itself wherever decent women of color venture to. Black males as a whole have no morals, integrity or decency. So it should not surprise any civilized human being because these Black demons are imbued with the spirit of Satan with manifests in their demonic, street harassing tendencies.

Black males you are horrible and disrespectful. All those times Black innocent men in the 1930s and decades after, the reality is that it should be you in this time, right now. You deserve to be strung up on a pole for your daily terrorism against Black women. Justice will be at the door to take the trash out-that is you street harassing, licentious, “Christian” Negroes. You are repulsive and need to be quarantined from civilized society.

This is What I See When a Black “Christian” Man Street Harasses Me (Including the Thinly Veiled “Hi, how you doin’?”)

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Yes, Black “Christian” males: when you street harass decent women you are viewed as out of control, subhuman beasts. And rightly so.

*A (covered) Sunni Muslim Black American Woman

Black Lives Matter: These Protestors Do Not Believe Their Own Rhetoric

Black Lives Matter: These Protestors Do Not Believe Their Own Rhetoric

As a Sunni Muslim Black American woman who is CONSTANTLY harassed by ‘Christian’ men on a near daily basis in the State of Maryland and the DC Metropolitan area, I would like to urge all of America to understand that the protestors in Baltimore do not represent all Black Americans. I do not say this to detract from the reality of police misconduct but to look at the types of people and motives of those who are at the core of the protests in the City of Baltimore from day one:

(1) Inner city, uneducated, ghetto Black ‘Christians’. They only state that Black lives matter when one or two white police officers are likely guilty for killing unarmed black male criminal suspect. This displays a SEVERE convenience of their proclaimed belief. One, where were all the protests when some of those very same gang leaders in your community were murdering and aiding in the proliferation of drugs in your neighborhoods–why is it when a handful of police engage in misconduct that you ‘take back’ your communities but not before when you destroy your own inner cities. So, it is acceptable among these inner city Blacks to kill each other off, rape and harass other Blacks but a national protest when law enforcement do it? This is a sick groupthink, ‘gang’ mentality. These protesters do not believe Black lives matter look how they have treated other Blacks for decades.

(2) Black loves matter?: Only if you are ignorant, high school drop out criminal, gang member, drug dealing, cat calling, ignorant street harassing ‘Christian’ male. Notice there is NEVER a protest when a Black woman dies at the hands of Black or white men, these types of people only raise their voices when a black male who is reasonably suspected of criminal activity is injured or dies. Yet, Black ‘Christian’ males are constantly responsible for sexual harassment on the job, and guilty of street harassing and assaulting Black women on a near daily basis. Let alone the high number of domestic violence incidents, Black men living off Black women wages, raping stepchildren, referring to her as ‘that bitch’ ‘situation’ and ‘female’ as if a Black woman should be known as an object or mammal for reproduction purposes only. Who weeps for a Black woman’s safety? even her life?

Where were the protests when Black male street harasser slit the throat of an innocent Black woman who did not want to engage in unsolicited conversation? Where was the so-called Black community’s outrage then?

(3) Black males today as a whole could care less about the safety, honor and respect of Black women. I can say as a Sunni Muslim that street harassment is something I have dealt with nearly my entire adult life in the State of Maryland and now in Howard County, Maryland. From Black, obese, short women accompanied by their Black male counterparts who harass me engage in false imprisonment-yes these Negroes jump in front of the doorway and will block your entry into East Columbia Library (Cradlerock Way, Columbia, Maryland) to throw their so called ‘Christian’ cult mindset upon you. To sexual street harassment by illiterate, dirty and nasty Black males at the Staples on Snowden River Parkway, the park at Dasher Green, Columbia Mall, the red line going into The District of Columbia metro, restaurants in Linthicum. Black Christian men and women are both guilty of self destructive, street harassment and other criminal behavior.

Beyond this, how many times has a Black man raped his stepchild, killed his child and “baby’s mother”, murdered a Black woman when she had enough sense to move on and find a decent guy and that Black male killed him as well? Black males who engaged in drive-by shootings, threaten their communities if they disclose criminal activity (remember the gang members that bombed an entire family who reported drug activity in her BALTIMORE neighborhood?) Fired weapons killing innocent Black children, Black women in which stray bullets killed innocent Black children in their home to get initiated in a gang, to ‘settle beef,’ gain territory for more drug dealing, Black families who live in constant fear that they cannot walk down the street in their own neighborhoods for fear that a BLACK man will “gun them down” , sexually assault, street harass or rob them?

The initial core protestors believe that only Black ‘Christian’ criminal lives matter not Blacks who are hard working, educated law abiding, and decent–especially of you are a Sunni Muslim–if you display good quality and character these same ‘Christian’ Blacks will refer to you as a ‘sell-out.’ They truly do not know what the word means because they ‘sell out’ their communities everyday by making them unsafe and uninhabitable due to their own Black ‘Christian’ behavior. So if there was ever any true plan to destroy Black communities by some unseen cabal then the sell-outs are the inner city, ignorant Blacks who do so rendering the former with clean hands.

‘Black lives matter’? Think about that expression Black male the next time you intend to harm or make a Black woman unsafe through your conduct of street harassment.

To the Black ‘Christian’ obnoxious women harassers who think everyone should emulate you as if your incessant need to wear weaves, fight over sneakers, force yourself into people’s personal space and disrespect, roll your eyes and talk about strangers’ clothes, “jump” lines in retail stores in an effort to instigate arguments and fights that fuel your bestial, aggressive tendencies, to your unnecessary, inciteable “beat down” stare to total strangers who mind their business but because they are covered Sunni Muslims who actually practice their religious beliefs perhaps you should reflect on why many strangers avoid your kind in public and would not want to dare emulate you. You are no better than those same Black males described above.

Another Black Woman’s Story: Black Men Keep Sexually/Street Harassing Her

Disgusting Black Men Never Stop…They carry the mark of Satan–troublemaking, debauchery and sinister lust. Here is her story:

http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/name-baby-rant-street-harassment-discrimination/

“My Name is NOT Baby,” a Rant About Street Harassment and Discrimination
MARCH 11, 2014 | ** GUEST AUTHOR ** |

One day, I was standing outside of a store waiting for my dad to meet me. While I was waiting, I made a phone call to my mom. While I was on the phone, I was approached my a man who was obviously more than twice my age who tried to engage me in a separate conversation. “Hey baby. I like them pants. What you up to tonight?” While there are so many ways in which I could have responded to him, I settled for a simple “I can’t talk right now, I’m on the phone” which he followed up with “Damn, girl I’m just trying to get to know you”. I suppressed a severe eye-roll and politely asked him to please leave me alone. When I didn’t respond to his advances, he proceeded to berate me with so many variations of “prude bitch”, my head began to spin.

I can’t walk down the street, pump gas into my car, shop in a grocery store, even sit in church without a man feeling entitled to harass me. They tell me to smile, they follow me around, they stare and whistle and honk their horns at my backside. They reach out and touch me without my permission.  Some even take pictures!

When I don’t acknowledge the man cat calling me from across the street, I’m a Stuck Up Bitch. All because I inform a man that my name is not “baby“, “sweetie“, or “ma“. I’m told “If I don’t want attention, I shouldn’t dress so attractively.” Some would say I shouldn’t be offended. This isn’t harassment, this is a compliment. If my boss, a strange man on the street, a security guard or store clerk wants to talk to me or stare at me or compliment me or follow me around, it’s just because they think I’m attractive. I should be honored. Shouldn’t I?

Let me go on record and say no, I shouldn’t be honored. This type of behavior isn’t a compliment, it’s harassment. I’m not obligated to smile just because a man wants me to. I don’t exist for the visual pleasure of men. I’d don’t have to speak to satisfy a man’s physical attraction to me or perceived “courage” in approaching me. And I’m not a bitch just because I don’t want to talk to a man I have no interest in.

Society has not changes much since the days in which Nathaniel Hawthorne penned “The Scarlet Letter“. Women are still judged harshly for our actions (and for our inaction). Only instead of having embroidered letters slapped upon our breast, we are instead being stamped with #hashtags in social media and with harsh labels from society and our peers.

Women in bad romantic relationships are labeled #SideLineChicks, #Sluts, #Hoes, etc. As if being in their predicament represents a character flaw on their part, not on the man who created the love triangle. A women who is assertive, aggressive, and is confident is labeled a #Bitch or #Bossy. A woman who enjoys sex and explores her sexuality is called a #Whore. When I don’t want to give my phone number to a stranger, I’m #StuckUp. A man being the boss, having sex as much sex as he wants, or wanting to be left alone is labeled a man.

What gives men the perceived right to label, ridicule, harass and demean women they don’t even know? Why is the biological fact that they are “men” enough for them to communicate with and about women in any kind of way? People say “that’s just how boys act” … “oh, he’s just being a man”. To me that’s barely an excuse. How can a man born of a woman be naturally inclined to treat women with disrespect? Sometimes, people assume I’m just a jaded woman. They tell me “you must not like men, that’s all” or they ask me if a man hurt me in my past. Why does there have to be something wrong with me just because I insist on being respected?

I tell people I’m a feminist and they look at me with confusion. What is a feminist, anyway? Many people (male and female) hear the word and they think of a radical bra-burning, man hating, ugly, lesbian who is under the delusion that they’re lives and treatment need to be equal.

That’s both offensive and limiting. Women are diverse. Our wants are diverse yet men assume we are all the same and treat us as such. A feminist is someone who believes in the social equality of all people regardless of gender. A feminist is someone who believes in respect for another human being regardless of gender. A feminist believes that being a man does not make you more powerful or more entitled to me, a woman. But I’m finding out now that people who hold this belief are few and far between.

Sexism is another unbelievable term. Even today, men are startled by the idea that women are oppressed anywhere outside of the Middle East. Why is it so unbelievable that in 2014 there is still harassment and discrimination against women? Why is my word and experience not enough to prove that the tragedy still exists?

It saddens me to admit that most of this discrimination and harassment comes from black men, my so called “brothers”.  How am I supposed to be responsible for lifting your spirits in a world that beats down upon you while you, the black man, is constantly berating me? Not only must I bear your suffering, but I must suffer under you. That’s not to say men of other races are excluded from harassment epidemic. When white men approach me the first thing they comment on are my lips, my hair, my hips, my breast and how they “always wanted a black women” as if all women of color are interchangeable and to have one is to have us all. As if having me at all is even an option, just because you want me. As if!

I confess to feeling a little depressed and powerless in these scenarios because in reality, I am somewhat powerless. Sometimes I feel like the only beings with the power to make any real change in the way women are treated and reacted to are the main ones responsible for the oppression. Women’s issues are everyone’s issues. And yet I feel constantly alone and criticized for crying wolf and calling men out on their privilege and outrageous behavior.

To the men out there, in case you still need convincing of your innate privilege given to you simply by being male (especially if you happen to be a white upper middle class male over 5’7″), allow me to break it down:

No reporter ever asks men how they plan to balance both their family and their career. (That’s a woman’s concern, right?)
Should you decide to run for office, political commentators will have nothing to say about what you wear to the podium.
Your value and intelligence are not directly linked to your sexual expression or lack thereof.
What goes on in your reproductive system is not under government regulation.
You can expect to see a group of men on a reality TV show who are not fighting. (“Bad Boys Club” just wouldn’t sell)
You can walk down the street at night (or anytime of day, really) and not be concerned for your sexual safety. (Do they make anti-rape, boxers yet?)
You can go nearly anywhere in the world and be allowed to wear what you want, go where you want, ride a bike, vote, go to school, work, pretty much do anything you want because you have a penis.
You aren’t criticized or called some variation of whore for appearing in public in minimal clothes (go shirtless if you want to, guys. Show off those abs!)
You can feel the freedom and right and even responsibility to comment on this article and tell me that my life experience and my opinions written here are wrong.
I have no ending for this piece. Just a plea for people to treat me (and others) with the respect I deserve not because I’m cute, or because I yelled at you and demanded that you speak to me with respect. But because I’m a human being. Not an object of your affection existing for your protection and attention That’s all.

Barnes & Noble Bookstore, NW Washington, DC

One day after work in NW, Washington, DC I was walking towards the Bank of America ATM at the Barnes & Noble bookstore north of the FBI Building. As it was not yet sunset but towards dusk I made sure to look to both my right and left after crossing the street. As I approached closer to the ATM machine a brawny, dark skinned black male who appeared to Barnes-and-Noblehave weighed 280 lbs or more, about 57 years of age, was rapidly approaching me at a diagonal. I was able to see him when he was less than a little over 2 feet away from me and immediately went inside the Barnes & Noble and asked for a manager.

I informed him that there was a black male hovering near the ATM machine to which the manager (white male) acknowledged was aware of. I then asked him he would escort me to the ATM and wait until my transaction was complete.

As we exited the Barnes & Noble the black male was still there as I was the first oeraon he saw. When he saw the manager (white male) immediately behind me and waiting for me to to use the ATM the black male immediately retreated and began to leave. I took an offensive measure and it worked.

I thanked the manager who still waited and watched me cross the street in the direction I was headed.

“It’s the media. The media has distorted our image to make us look bad. Please cut the xxxxxx bull****….When I am at the money machine, I’m not looking for the media. I’m looking for n*****s.”
-Chris Rock, Comedian