at the Harris Teeter at Kings Contrivance Village

One morning at approximately 10:00 a.m.,  I was shopping at the Harris Teeter grocer on Kings Contrivance village center in 8620 Guilford Rd, Columbia, MD 21046.  After a couple of minutes in one aisle of the produce section. I noticed that one of its tall, black male employees was likely following me.  I had not been in the store for long and initially dismissed my passing thought. I continued to another aisle of the section and noticed the same thing which also happened in the aisle right parallel to the wall refrigerator.  There were other shoppers around so I decided to get the attention of a female employee who was in the salad section. I explained to her that her black male co-worker was following me though I did nothing wrong.  She had already noticed his behavior and decided to wait with me while I retrieved my salad and walked with me part way to the register.

I was disgusted that a black male employee of a grocer (happens frequently in Columbia, Maryland stores) was trying to intimidate me. He was a total stranger, did not articulate anything and just stared at me stone-faced as if he wanted me to leave the store.

The manager was contacted and as usual it was a white male who feigned a shocked reaction said, but “he’s married?!”  My response was today’s black males don’t care about that.  I also informed him how the female employee already noticed her co-worker’s behavior and assisted me. There is a pattern in which certain white males will, for reasons explored in several blogs across the country (U.S.) and articles of the co-sign of black male abuse of black women.  To the white men who do this, you become an accessory and are just as guilty as the perpetrator. I do not know what the white male’s manager motive was for providing the relationship status of the black male employee as his conduct would have been offensive to me (the shopper) whether he was single or not.  The reality was that it was just another typical black “Christian” male with no morals and an inclination to harm women.

Many black women have learned over the years that they are on their own, no longer will society to the right thing and when it does it is most likely someone of another race protecting the decent black woman—because they do need protection—from so many black men of today.

…at the Whole Foods in Columbia, Maryland (Howard County)

One morning at approximately 9:00 a.m.,  I was entering the Whole Foods grocer 10275 Little Patuxent Pkwy, Columbia, Maryland 21044 (Howard County), from my car in the designated parking lot.  I noticed a dark-skinned black “Christian” male approximately 5’9” in height who appeared to be from the City of Baltimore (unkempt, ignorant face, bubble eyes and a sneer).  There are two sets of doors from which you may enter. When I left my car, I noticed he was walking quickly from my left, where the actual exit door was to the right, where I needed to enter.

I proceed to walk to the far, right entry door closer to where the carts are kept outside as he appeared to walk to the left set. As soon as he saw me entering a separate set of doors, he did an about face and walked behind me and murmured something. I immediately zigged and went to the doors to the far left.  Apparently, this dark-skinned black “Christian” male was already harassing other patrons as I noticed a Caucasian female Howard County police officer in uniform standing alert in the eating area. I grabbed a handbasket and proceeded to the fresh food/self-service area.  The same dark-skinned black male “Christian” followed me, this time with Whole Foods employees noticing. I immediately proceeded to a different section and saw the police officer quickly move towards the black male to address his behavior.  After my purchase, I went to the eating area to obtain utensils and napkins and saw a black male eating, glance at me and then look down at his food.  I thought, ‘…must be quite embarrassing that a white woman in uniform have to monitor black males just so people can get groceries in peace.’  This is the so-called suburbs of Maryland.

Introduction

This blog is dedicated to black women, women of color thrown in the “black” category and others who are sick of being sexually harassed by black men. As in America’s history, few care about the well-being of non-white women and children. Black women and those similarly situated have been constantly harassed, killed, and raped by black men who cannot take no for an answer. It’s time to take a better stand. Fight for your rights, carry mace, host meet-ups for self-defense, write your local council people and state government that more measures need to be taken to protect women. Most of all be safe!

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