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Two-Facedness of the Ghetto black male Street Harasser/Stalker: Part III

…but wait there’s more!

“You still black!” [sic] Because somehow their narrow denotation of being a criminal and ghetto, disrespectful, and a nuisance harassing women strangers and cursing is the standard they define as “blackness” and it is their delusional belief that they have a monopoly on defining another individual who’s a total stranger based on a superficial commonality. Yet, these same blacks will treat certain Sunni Muslims differently in everyday normal circumstances because they do not fit their definition of black because they do not view them as black.  These black “Christians” bemoan that whites try to define blacks’ image and control everything, media (newspapers, magazines, online platforms). Then they say “Go back to wherever the hell you came from!” “No one wants you here.”—when yelling at random Sunni Muslim black Americans, once again total strangers.

“The white man is a deceiver.”  Then these same self-deluded predatory blacks that “plant” other blacks near or around black American Sunni Muslim women (their target) to eavesdrop, attempt to insinuate themselves into strangers’ lives who have no desire for the presence, company, nor solicited, provoked or even hinted of the same; lie, attempt to assess the weakness of in attempt to control, but give fake smiles, play “good stranger, bad stranger” as their own form of deception; play members of both black and white races in order to derive a benefit not earned,  start false rumors and falsely impugn the character of black women who reject them  from the beginning and then pretend to be pro-black with their “deep” made up belief systems, ideology and race rhetoric—and they usual work in conjunction with or for the same whites and Hispanics who they purport to speak against.

“…but the white man is the devil.” Oh really? Well, you’re one as well:  https://blackmanleaveusalone.wordpress.com/2017/08/08/black-male-street-harassers-are-devils-period/

“She think she so special.” [sic] When referring to black female strangers.  Then they demand the black women who are total strangers to grant them attention like 5-year old boys because they think they’re special.

“See Hollywood—they’re sick.  They do certain rituals and force the women into MK ultra”.  When today’s black “Christians” attempt to deflect form their “storefront” preaching (something which originated during slavery to keep black slaves subordinate to the overseer, thus the slavemaster)/today’s black churches in order to subdue black women who groom young girls and boys, aide in human trafficking of other black women, raping their daughters (literally in their church basements), stepdaughters, boys in their youth programs, mothers, have their adherents eat grasss (graze) in the fields like literal sheep, telling females to not attend their house of worship with undergarments so the “preacher” can get at them, use gangstalking, sound conditioning as stimuli in order to elicit responses so they can attempt to exercise their own form of control of other blacks because they have no authority over anything let alone their own lives; but somehow Hollywood is the main problem….you also see what they do to black women who are total strangers.  Black “Christians” of today are the primarily sick ones but they attempt to use, once again, their dirty tricks of diversion and distraction thinking most people will fall for it.

“I can’t stand Muslims,” or “I hate Islam” (many black male and female “Christians” say this).  Then they get offended, ummm hummm and huff and puff, when Sunni Muslim black women don’t have an interest in their black males.  Wait, if you can’t stand Islam or Muslims, why do you keep shoving your predatory, thugs of sons in their faces then turn around and encourage their UNWANTED and unsolicited pursuit of black American Sunni Muslim women and tell them it’s because “she’s a nice young black lady.” (but she Muslim so let’s vilify her and demand she acknowledge the black male stranger).  It is due to the obvious fact that you view her as a resource to manipulate for your own benefit and think no one can detect the modis operandi. Pure narcissism with a coating of schizophrenic two face simon bianchisociopathy—but then call themselves “normal.” It’s none of your business who a total stranger is interested in nor is it your right to interfere with a stranger’s life, but these black “Christians” attempt to all the time. So, I guess it is “how you were raised” since your black “Christian” grandmothers, black mamas, aunts are just as bad as you are and encourages your harassing and disrespectful behavior. Ironically, they will state that whites “talk down” to them on the job, interfere with their lives, another method used by white slavemasters to exercise dominion and control on broken slaves.  These black “Christians” try to replicate a similar form of paternalization against black American Sunni Muslim women that was recorded in American history between black and white (legacy of slavery).  They will also decry that whites use blacks for their labor, melanin, to make their biological legacy last longer, body parts, and other resources for their benefit when you attempt to do the same thing to other blacks (Sunni Muslims) by attempting to ensnare them in our mentally ill, socially depraved traps to use them for their talent, skills or other value–the very ones “you can’t stand.”

“The system is set up to hold us back.”  Then both male and female blacks implement their personal brand of “Crabs in a Barrell” plot against certain blacks because they do not want to see successful instead of focusing on their own insecurities and personal failings–for all races to observe on the public stage and wonder why whites as a whole don’t respect nor take blacks seriously.

“White people always asking how my weekend was” on the job and “They always trying to get into our business.”  Then both black male and female “Christians” conspire to stalk, gangstalk, eavesdrop, lie in wait and criminally spy on target Sunni Muslim black American women so they can slander, mock, plot against or otherwise harm the same.  But to them whites are the main problem?  Talk about the pot calling the kettle black, literally.

“Whites always putting down blacks.”  Only then to mock, point out and literally laugh at black American Sunni Muslims who dress modestly and wear hijab.

“Whites act like it’s never their fault.” Or “Whites think they flawless.”  Then both male and female black “Christians” commit crimes such as stalking, sexual harassment, street samboharassment, malicious damage, destruction of property, thefts, assault and slander against Sunni Muslim black Americans who are total strangers, and conceal each other’s filth and deeds and play victim of an unjust criminal system when they still ‘til this day have not receive punishment for most crimes they continue to commit against other blacks.  Do these black “Christians” make restitution, atone, amends?  Nor do they EVER apologize because they claim to be a follower of a historic figure and justify their behavior because of someone else’s belief system (by the way, it is their Satanic belief that they have the right to torment, torture and otherwise “recruit” in their pagan devil worship), just like racist whites justify their behavior and crimes against others primarily based on race.

Most of today’s black “Christians” are nothing more than faux pro-black white racists (apparently they suffer from identity and attachment disorders) cloaked in black flesh.  These ghetto black males do what they do because they actually think they are white and implement the same tactics, attempts at humiliation and control that other racists do (yet have the audacity to call a black woman who demands to be respected, refuse to lower themselves to their childish and low standards and speak proper English as “thinking that they’re white).  See that Satanic self-deception again.  That’s one way to obliterate their false defense of “blacks can’t be racist.”  There you have it folks.

Just to be clear you have no worth to the black women strangers  you are harassing despite what your black mothers told you. In other words, by belief, conduct and deed you are worthless.  Your steppin’ fetchit, buckdancing for attention nuisance routine (minstrel show) is simply modern day cooning.  In case you need a reminder AGAIN:

Identifying Individual Gangstalkers-Here’s a List (Draft) (Updated)

This is a warning to decent people of Maryland, there several black pagan “Christian” female jokerstrangers who are targeting individuals as part of their demonic sport.  So I have decided to list them and the incidents specifically and add specifics as time allows.  These are demonic troublemakers who seek to gain your attention by any means including causing harm to you; such as attempting to intentionally cause an accident, yelling derogatory remarks, distracting you from your goals, interfering with your work, etc.  Be aware that they are strangers to you, yet they know much about you. It is a network of pagan Christians who are actually Satan-worshippers.  It is not that you are just considered a good person, it is that they want access to you to destroy everything you have, owned or worked for.  Evil is their nature, envy is their motivator and if you are a decent person, who minds their business, are focused on self-development and achieving goals; they will hone in on you. Here is a specific listing of individuals by what I could identify them by (as they are total strangers to me)

Specific individual names

02/2019:  Two black males, of course the driver was an obese dark-skinned both criminals sped away when about to be confronted, driving a black 4-door sedan, DC license tag FM 3338, Jessup, Maryland.

12/2018:  Butch black female employee of Flagger Force following black women strangers.  Caught on surveillance, company is currently investigating her criminal activity in Jessup, Maryland:

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10/2018:  At the Exxon gas station on Washington Blvd, Howard County, Maryland. Asian male pulls in the middle pump, at a diagonal, doesn’t get gas, takes out his cell phone andpicture 2 starts recording me finish getting gas.  As I left I took a picture of his car and his face.  He puts on reflective shades, then stares at me, then turns away and pulls off:  Silver Hyupicture 1ndai Sonata, Maryland driver’s license tag:  9BD8913

06/18/2018:

Black male:  4-door Kia Sorento Ex, Maryland license tag “GOTMATH”, expiration 06/2019-New York Avenue from N.W., Washington, D.C. to Maryland (Prince George’s County)

Intentionally tried to cause a car accident.

Black female:  4-door black sedan, unidentified make and model, Maryland orange vanity  license tag “DIVAA”Laurel Bowie Road, Laurel, Maryland (Prince George’s County)

Intentionally tried to cause a car accident, preparing to yell epithets from her car; I closely avoided the individual both times on the same road.

Ironically, both have “vanity license plates” which reflects their ego and tell-tale sign that they believe if no one is like them (evil, selfish, belligerent, arrogant, bigoted) they somehow deserve to be annihilated.

I will add as incidents occur.  They happen often and usually I attempt remedial measures. It is apparent they have no shame, so since they are so embolden with their evil to try to kill someone on the road who is a stranger to them, because they are filled with so much hate and jealousy, consider this a public service for you.

Phrases and Language Gang-Stalkers & Street Harassers Use

You will notice that those involved in a consorted effort against their target who is a total stranger but whom they have compiled data on through their activity will make additional comments other than “she crazy” [sic]. They will make statements of “she thinks she so special,” or he/she “is aggressive.”

Now, I have addressed the first comment they used to divert attention from their criminal activity to discredit their victim in a previous post here:  https://blackmanleaveusalone.wordpress.com/2018/08/10/gang-stalking-another-form-of-street-harassment-and-its-more-prevalent-than-you-think/

imageNext we have “she thinks she so special.”  So apparently these gangstalkers and street harassers (both male and female) are mind readers and soothsayers.  Beyond this fallacy, let’s take a look at the word “special” shall we?  One of the definitions of special is having the characteristic of being distinct or unique.  Other than the fact that these people do not know what another person is thinking, especially a stranger, let’s look at their conduct.   They have a special interest in a targeted individual.  They have a demonic need to be in the presence of and disturb this individual.  Stalkers and street harassers, i.e., are therefore paying special attention to this stranger without the strangers’ consent nor to their liking.  So when these perpetrators engage in this activity, aren’t they the ones treating the targeted individual as “special”?  Indeed, they do not treat everyone they encounter, and all of their family members or coworkers with such heinous, envious behavior.  The reality is that they believe the target to be special and which is why they desire an access that they will never be granted. They provide unique and unwanted attention to a stranger whom they have obsessed over, hoping to destroy the object of their jealousy.  Thus, street harassers and gangstalkers use the psychological defense mechanism of projection because they cannot admit they are envious of their target’s accomplishments so they must make false statements that actually bear the fruit of their thoughts and opinions.  Oft-times, targeted individuals are strangers to the perpetrators, yet these criminals know of the stranger’s achievements.  female jokerIsn’t that something? They dig and find out about their victims that make the criminal’s insecure (that’s probably karma for not minding your business in the first place, they realize how much of a loser they are as human beings, i.e., having no character, dignity or integrity, as well as personal failings in goals they never accomplished), so when they make uninformed blanket statements they hope to guilt the target in being ashamed of accomplishments that they had not bragged about in the first place because, well they have no reason to tell their business to strangers.  So the criminals who are strangers burdened themselves with the knowledge of another, realize how many bad decisions they made in their lives, but demands respect from the stranger THEY harmed because of their own envy?  Now, isn’t that something.  In other words, they believe their targets to be special or otherwise they would not be trying to get the attention of, criminally force or insinuate themselves into a total stranger’s life—a stranger who does not want anything to do with these demonically possessed criminal actors.

Lastly, is “he or she is aggressive.”  This is similar to them saying “watch out” or “be careful” to onlookers so that the actual gangstalker pretends to be one of the crowd and not the actual criminal.  These psychopaths are cunning in their speech, like to “turn the tables” on their victims and NEVER take responsibility for their actions.  They appear to have stable jobs and nice cars; trappings of the appearance of well-adjusted adults but they are nothing but.  So let’s see, banging on people’s doors, cutting them off in traffic, running them off the parkway, cutting them off in line, assaulting, stalking, gathering others to join in the harassment and predatory behavior of total strangers minding their business does not appear to be aggressive (criminal) to the actual perpetrators; yet when their target confronts them, defends themselves they are somehow aggressive.  As usual, most of these demons cloaked in human flesh like to use the tactics of diversion and distraction.  They misuse and abuse English vocabulary as part of mental deceit hoping that not only they can get the target to feel insecure but to feel justified in their Satanic acts towards the targeted individual.  According to Merriam Webster ‘aggression’ is an unprovoked attack.  So this is how gang stalking demons twist words around:  they stalk, skulk, lie in wait, verbally abuse total strangers who are law abiding citizens (being aggressive); but will declare that the targeted individual is ‘aggressive’ when he or she confronts their crimes.  This is was Satan does. The devil and evildoers cannot be truthful because truth is the opposite of falsehood and Satan is the purveyor of lies, evil and deceit.  So, when you hear these phrases, know that you are in the presence of gangstalking criminals.  Protect your mind, be on the alert and arm yourself against these demons cloaked in human flesh.  They are your co-workers, other customers, managers, landlords, public transport drivers, librarians, etc.  They are more abundant than you think.

The Regression of Mankind:  Gangstalking the Criminal and Immoral Acts of Primitive Minds

The Regression of Mankind:  Gangstalking the Criminal and Immoral Acts of Primitive Minds

I wanted to take a different look at what gangstalking has become, nothing but organized, sociopathic bullying by primarily pagan devil worshipping “Christians.”  Some have argued that these actors on Satan’s stage are paid by others, while others have indicated these perpetrators engage in gangstalking and street harassment for mere entertainment and self-gratification. 

One thing you will notice about street harassers and gang stalkers is that always try to find a way to gain access to their prey.  Intentionally and unnecessarily walking in someone’s space, pretending to “bump” into a woman as a means to unlawfully touch a total stranger hoping they will not be charged with a crime even blocking the women who are strangers in parking lots with their cars; scoping people’s property (handbags, contents of their cars) like pigs snorting around for any remnant he can snatch to satisfy his hording and thieving ways.

You must keep in mind that street-sexual harassers are continuing devolving as anti-social individuals who resort to jungle noises, Neanderthal grunts , snorts and exaggerated coughs usually present in the mentally primitive 2defunct or an inarticulate child whose brain has not fully developed.  Ofttimes, the black males who engage in this type of aggressive behavior are “down low” homosexuals who believe they can strengthen the perception of their machismo to targets they assume will comply.  When they meet resistance even more childlike behavior ensues as well as behavior usually associated with women.  Their mannerism of “sucking teeth”, switching, making other sounds such as “haahuuuh” to display their irritation that their intended targets do not care nor will provide the response they demand to receive.  You will also note that their primitive minds (both male in female) they ignore situational awareness, bang on desks like a spoiled child who is being ignored, bang on counters of fast-food restaurants, bang on doors of private residences, even bang on your driver side door of your car while their targets are in parking lots-bang bang bang = savages; although their targets are strangers going about their daily business.  These black male and female pagan “Christians” are destructively insecure, self-loathing and ironically seek the attention and approval of the very same people they despise (as a result of stalking and spying they come to learn of their targets’ achievements and education attainment) who become their targets.  These primates learn just enough of civilized behavior to only mask their true nature when they are in the presence of whites–the actual people they worship as God lending more credence to their pagan belief system; thus confirming that they view themselves and are indeed actual animals with mild human attributes.

In the history of man, before there was formulated language, the primitives used hand gestures and noises to convey a message.  This was whether it was a request, a demand or a question.  Ironically, man is considered higher beings based on intellect yet these devilish gangstalkers are using the same means or “language” of primitive mankind. Notice how the words primitive and primate have the same root.  It’s indicative of the stereotypes that these black male pagan “Christians” are acting like “jungle monkeys”, “guerillas in the midst”, “I’ll be a monkey’s uncle” (certain whites) and “apes in heat”— their behavior is based in an animalistic and savage code. This also gives credence to the lack of intelligence these black male pagan “Christians” have developed since birth. They covet the property of others, they stare into other people’s cars, eavesdrop on the most minutiae of conversations because they were never able to develop into normal human beings who could social interact and integrate with the very same people they loathe and are envious of who are unlike them—in a good way.  These street harassers (both male and female) which are heavily pervasive among today’s blacks, are usually low on various or cross-section of scales:  physical health, educational attainment, socialization, etc.  So it isn’t surprising that you find amongst most of today’s black pagan “Christians” that these interactions or their attempt to elicit negative responses from targeted individuals are based on a low reverberation of energy.  They worship whites and resort to “steppin fetchit” appeasement of their racist slavemasters by targeting monotheistic blacks who do not adhere to their pagan beliefs or Satanic behavior.  Such irony should not escape the casual observer that these same black criminals who aim their activities towards other blacks are the ones who pretend to be “pro black” and will even say “she supposed to be pro-black” therefore she should allow me to violate her civil rights, human rights and bodily integrity.  This is how many of today’s black pagan “Christian” males and females of today think and justify their crimes.

They have dull brains, poor to no speech and would have been excommunicated amongst the civilized in earlier times.  My how the times have changed or should I say regressed?:  these people are now supervisors, permeate the blue-collar sector, live off their 2-job baby mamas or their actual single mothers who raised them.  They have chosen to devolve from a recognizable human being to a pure satanic animal cloaked in human flesh and they are not the agent in which you see the decay of America’s values.  They are the evil that causes harm to the innocent in their daily lives.  These are the animals which walk amongst us on two legs, disguised as natural human beings. 

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Warbles of the Black Male Street Harasser & Gang Stalker

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Read in quick voice at the end of commercial:  This is for educational purposes only.  You only risk attracting black male street harassers and gang stalkers if you use this CD. Warning for informational usage to warn would be victims of the violent mentality of black male street harassers., Time Life is a registered trademark. All Rights Reserved. Time Life nor any songwriters of the songs referenced have not endorsed this post. Satirical user discretion is advised.

 

Another Point to Ponder….

Just something to think about:  black pagan “Christian” male street harassers (as well as photothose of other races) will verbally abuse, accost, sexually-street harass in broad daylight and in public black women minding their own business.  These same black males will, without impunity, brag about their misdeeds and criminal behavior on social media platforms such as YouTube and attempt to justify their right to violate the rights of women. Now, isn’t that something? But wait, there’s more.

NBC logoYET, these same black “Christian”  criminals with their flawed excuses and wicked desperation pretend to be offended and as a result will threaten and disrespect their victims who on various social media platforms expose, vent, discuss these criminals for their acts of disrespect including but not limited to: street harassment, sexual harassment, gang-stalking, accosting and verbal abuse.  So where was the black male’s shame and embarrassment when you were actually street harassing these women in public and violating their constitutional rights and public safety? You commit criminal acts in public, thus you revealed who you really are—a typical criminal.

Let us ponder this:  In the view of the black male sexual deviant it is somehow offensive to them and wrong for a woman to expose these criminals for what they have done in

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the PUBLIC?   This is what we refer to as “ghetto black Christian” logic. It makes absolutely no sense, except to those who were not raised to be a part of or those who choose not to be a part of reasonable society.

Based on an ever-increasing body of proof that these types of black males (also dubbed ‘coons’) are the primary purveyors of Neanderthalism, misogynism and gender-based discrimination  when it comes to decent, everyday, law abiding black women who try to live their lives like any other American without the offensive disruption at the hands of these sexually deviant miscreants.

Think about that for a minute.

(Note:  It’s simple and repulsively erroneous and basically a fallacy: to black males ala single black “Christian” motherhood and the entitlement welfare mentality, women of color, in particular their vaginas are public property and as being a part of the general public, believe they should have access to them.  As crass and descriptive as this statement is; their own actions have demonstrated such. They hate black women and find a self-indulged and sinister joy in disrespecting them every opportunity they see.  Yet, at the same time, need the very women whom they stave off. These are the low-level crab in the barrel blacks who seek to destroy anyone they set their eyes on.)

 

What England is Doing under the Rule of Law to Combat Street Harassment According to an Article

…which will likely never happen in the United States, a country which claims to protect women’s rights and leader of the ‘free world.’  According to the Teen Vogue periodical, Great Britain has passed a law outlawing harassment based on gender-reliant discrimination:

Women Reporting Street Harassment as a Crime in the UK                                     Brittney McNamara Aug 15, 2017 3:45PM EDT

Black Male Street Harassers are the Devil. PERIOD.

There are 1 billion people on the planet and for some reason in the Washington, D.C. metro area, especially Maryland, black male “Christians” will stalk, street harass, accost and assault decent women photowho are total strangers who reject their advances.   To the rational thinking person, it makes absolutely no sense why these black males take rejection so personally, only to solidify that they are insecure and have low-esteem despite the false over the top machismo they manufacture to perpetrate street harassment as a normal function of male genes. Normal, well-adjusted, and well-educated men do not street harass by the way.  So to recap, somehow out of a billion people on the planet, dark-skinned black males choose to attempt to humiliate, disrespect and assault women who had nothing to do with them and continue to not to have anything to do with them, and only by observation verify that they made the right decision in the first place.  These are the black so-called representatives of Christ of today, their logic being if you don’t let me hit on you, have my way with you or sexually assault you, I will disrespect you in the alternative by hurling verbal abuse, non-sensical defense of savage behavior aimed at women who are TOTAL STRANGERS.  The reason why this is normal is because today’s ghetto black “Christians” have no moral compass.  They are coddled by their single black “Christian”, democratic party voting mothers whose example is how to use the government system to their advantage and use men.  Thus, their example in life is to use people, when a discerning, decent woman can by observation detect the corrupted DNA sequence that comprise these low-level black “Christian” males and the same males are met with lack of access, this is when you see the apes in heat go bizerk.  They spiral into hysterical laughter, insults, “..didn’t want you anyway,” “you ain’t all that,” “f*@! you,” and all kinds of verbal drivel to divert the fact that they never had a chance and must now soothe the initially fragile ego. It is utterly fascinating and disturbing at the same time how these dark-skinned black “Christian” males attempt to defend their conduct, all the while the reasonable intelligent woman knows that they street harass because they assume 1) that you are easily accessible (quite satanic that they believe a covered, religious person actually is), 2) the woman that they are targeting is either unintelligent or vulnerable.  There is NO way a good, well-mannered, discerning woman could accept this as normal or flattering behavior.  Remember there are 1 billion people on the planet and some sadistic black male strangers see fit to stalk, harass, disrespect and humiliate a woman who by proper discernment seeks no interaction with these vagrants.  Yet, out of all the millions of people in the country, these black male vagabonds short-circuit and set forth plots to destroy these women who are total strangers.  You cannot tell me that course of behavior is not simply pure evil.

Just to be clear, these are the same types of black males who claim to be part of or support Black Lives Matter, which obviously does not apply to other blacks and focuses on the liberalization of criminal activity and ignores criminal conduct of ghetto blacks upon innocent Black Americans.  Then again, it makes sense they are supporters of such a movement, black women are not any type of beneficiary of it.  So now we venture into why black male street harassers are devils.

cartoon devilOne of the non-theological definition of devil is:  an atrociously wicked, cruel, or ill-tempered person.’ Another definition is ‘mischievous,’ this aptly describes black male street harassers.  Street harassers are troublemakers because they initiate conflict and originate situations of distress where none previously existed.  Trouble is a synonym for mischief, thus by any rational thinking person street harassers are mischief-makers, better known as devils.  So, why would a black “Christian” devil (oxymoron, but hey it’s logical to them) believe that they have the right to street harass a religious person? A covered Sunni Muslim black American woman?  It is easy, let us take a look at opposites, good v. bad, wicked v. righteous, devil (deceiver, peacemaker, someone who causes distress) v. someone at peace or minding their business or who would not even consider such a disrespectful beggar as worthy of their time.  Ill-tempered? Check. Please refer to this post:

https://blackmanleaveusalone.wordpress.com/tag/not-fooling-anyone/

 Since most street harassers are black males and street harassers are devils, thus most of today’s black males = devils, minions of Satan.

12 Moms Share Gross Stories Of Getting Catcalled While With Their Kids

A couple of months ago I posted a photo art representation of the different types of women who have and are catcalled by predatory black males.  These are athletic, religious clad, pregnant, women with children, professional women to name a few.  It was the traditional argument that men were to protect women, but America has regressed in which the average American woman needs protection FROM certain males, i.e. the predatory vagrants.

There was a recent news article published in the Huffington Post regarding street harassment in which mothers share their stories of being street harassed while out in public with their children:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/12-moms-share-gross-stories-of-getting-catcalled-while-with-their-kids_us_59414a7ce4b003d5948c8270

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12 Moms Share Gross Stories Of Getting Catcalled While With Their Kids

“Did you know your mother’s hot?”

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I was totally unaware being catcalled while with your children is so incredibly common.

I was once catcalled while wearing my son in a baby carrier. I guess the presumed presence of my body underneath the baby strapped to my torso was apparently good enough for the guy who shouted at me as I was on the way to daycare one day.

Another time, my harasser used my son as the middle man, directing his “You’ve got a beautiful Mommy, you know that?” to the stroller I pushed in front of me. “NO!” I thought but didn’t say because I tend to avoid the uncertainty of conflict in these situations. “You don’t get to use my son to catcall me!”

We’re entering summer, which for many women and non-binary people is when street harassment escalates. It’s always unpleasant, but it may be even more unpleasant and jarring when it happens in the company of your children.

I didn’t know this was a common experience until I started asking. Just as every woman I know has a story of some guy harassing her, so do many mothers had a story of being harassed while out with their children. Some of them are almost amusing in their sheer nerve, some are shudder-inducing, and they unanimously make you want to say, “Ugh.”

Below, 12 women speak out on what the experience is like.

1. “He suggested to the kids that mommy should give him her number.”

I had a guy follow my children and I into the parking lot of a grocery store telling me how beautiful I was and asking for my number. He suggested to the kids that mommy should give him her number. I considered backing up over him with my car. ― Jamie Lechner

2. “What a cutie! And the baby’s not too bad either!”

I was carrying my 9-month-old through the parking lot of a department store to my car and a man was staring at us for an uncomfortably long amount of time, enough to make me pick up my pace and avoid eye contact. Then he yelled, “What a cutie! And the baby’s not too bad either!” He thought he was so funny. Ugh. ― Brie Riley

3. “I want my daughters to know that they can speak up for themselves and that it is not OK with me for strangers to comment on my body.”

Summers are always the worst for catcalling but it gets even worse when my kids are in tow. Men feel they can comment on my tattoos whenever they feel like it and when it does happen, I ignore them or tell them to stop speaking to me. It’s important to do this in front of my daughters because I do not want them growing up feeling like they can be objectified.

I want my daughters to know that they can speak up for themselves and that it is not OK with me for strangers to comment on my body. Hopefully it rubs off on them. ― Jennifer Clark

4. “I have been catcalled at 7 months pregnant.”

If it counts, I have been catcalled at 7 months pregnant (and VERY visibly so, I was wearing a dress which proudly showed the bump!). I was most confused ― did the man saying “Hey sexy mama” and making crude gestures think I was going to haul my large pregnant self into his white van and have sex with him?! ― Ayesha Jeary

5. “I can be his daddy.”

A few years ago, I was walking with my 2-year-old son when a man walked up to us and leered, “I can be his daddy.” We ducked into a restaurant. Thankfully, he was too little to notice. I just ignored the man. Nowadays, we have an open dialogue about how we treat girls and women. ― Sara Heistand

6. “He was so confused as to why mommy went from cheerful to fearful in seconds.”

I was leaving a large retail store at the anchor end of a mall with my son. We were laughing and I was swinging my bags in one hand and holding his with the other while he skipped, as we crossed the lane and into the parking lot. It was dusk and I hear a man whistle and shout. I was so used to it that I automatically stiffened up and picked up my pace, without acknowledging it. I was practically dragging my son by the time the man caught up to us and started asking to “be friends” and saying how “handsome” my son is.

I moved away briskly and he picked up his own pace and asked if I “wanted company this weekend.” I was almost running now so he stopped and then proceeded to shout “Ugly, b*tch, high on yourself” at my back, followed by more name-calling and slurs. I covered my son’s ears and jumped in the car. He was so confused as to why mommy went from cheerful to fearful in seconds and the vibe of our fun, late afternoon had totally changed.

I waited for 10 minutes before getting back out of my SUV to get my son situated in his car seat; he was only 3 1/2 at the time. (There are more instances but that one stuck out in my memory most because it was the most frightened I ever was with my son present.) ― Kasandra Powell

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7. “And that, my fellow feminists, is how you sexualize a fetus.”

When I was pregnant with my first child, a random stranger told me that if the baby was a boy he’s be a lucky little sod sucking on those tits. And that, my fellow feminists, is how you sexualize a fetus. ― Nesta May

8. “I wear my daughter all around our hood and stay getting hit on.”

I wear my daughter all around our hood and get hit on. My husband thinks dudes don’t realize I have a baby in there and one guy actually told me that. But I don’t buy it. What the hell else would be in this OBVIOUS baby carrier? A bowling ball?

And pregnancy catcalls were also a thing but thinly veiled as “compliments” like “Oh you look good girl” and “Wish I was the daddy.” I walked to work until the end and got not shortage of street harassment. ― Helena Andrews-Dyer

9. “You just had to have it, didn’t you?”

I was pushing my twins in a stroller when they were about 18 months old when an older man leered at us and said “You just had to have it, didn’t you?” I had no idea what he was talking about and said “What?” He replied, “Oh the thing that gets you two babies born so close together,” and then winked at me.

They are boy/girl twins and don’t look much alike so he probably thought I had gotten pregnant again very soon after giving birth to the first. Either way, I was really grossed out and mumbled something about them being twins and got the hell out of there.  ― Kelly Wilson Bossley

10. “It just feels particularly unkind.”

I’ve gotten pregnant catcalled and every time I’m just like WHAT??! I give them a look or say something to the effect of “Are you fucking serious?” I mean, I guess it’s no more or less offensive than regular catcalling ― pregnant bodies are beautiful and it can look sexy I guess. It just feels particularly unkind. ― Melissa Petro

11. “Did you know your mother’s hot?”

The worst was once when we were waiting for the subway and some dude leered at me and then said to my kid, “Did you know your mother’s hot?”

I just ignored him because I’m always scared about escalating stuff. Later when my son asked me about it I just said, “We live in a really messed up culture that thinks women’s bodies are public property.” ― Anne Thériault

12. “I feel so uneasy when I’m catcalled while with my kids.”

I was once catcalled on my way to the pool with my two young daughters. The man was driving while I was walking. I ignored him and turned left onto a one-way street. He drove in reverse down the one-way street still catcalling to me and trying to get me to give him my number. My daughters were 2 and 4 at the time. This was in NYC. I was terrified!

Even for a NYC street, there was no one else around. I thought he was going to kidnap us. My daughters didn’t ask me anything and I didn’t tell them anything either. They don’t remember thankfully.

However, I feel so uneasy when I’m catcalled while with my kids. Almost like the only reason they’re catcalling me is because I have children. Almost like I’m an easy target or prey. Maybe I’m overthinking it but it feels like it’s my kids some of these men are after. ― Doris Villegasfor clarity.

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