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Two-Facedness of the Ghetto black male Street Harasser/Stalker: Part II

They are trying to destroy us and manipulate our image in the news and on television.  White people control everything.”  Then decry “black women can’t be controlled.”

“We have to unite, that’s their strategy—divide and conquer.”  Then proceed to conspire with whites and Hispanics who despise black people altogether, to target, stalk and destroy black women and murder other black males.  Black males with silver tongue befriend certain white women on the job because they know they are protected in most circumstances, pitting white women against other women; preying on black women who already know they must work twice as hard and still not be considered good enough, what current black male privilege has replaced with their Othello strategy.  They will coon for any time of attention from anyone:

No one is impressed.  Let us continue:

“See look, I’m just out here and the police are harassing me.”  Then street harass without provocation or solicitation as well as catcall modestly dressed women, or any woman for that matter who are total strangers.

They don’t take us seriously.”  Then proceed to street harass, stalk or otherwise endanger women of the same race and justify their crimes with “I was just playin’.”

“See that’s why I walk around with a hoodie on” and a mean face “because white women are always trying to touch my hair” or “put their hands on me.”  Then proceed to accost, invade the personal space of, sexually harass and street harass black women strangers.

“We’re being replaced y’all.”  Then tell black women, no one wants you, a white woman is better than any of you.  A white or Hispanic woman can easily replace you.  Then also say, “…those Latino women think they are better than black women” and “…they talk about you like a dog.”

“Nobody wants a black woman with nappy hair.” Or “I don’t find natural hair attractive on a black woman.”  Then say, black women are always wearing weaves trying to be white.

“We already knew this country ain’t s***.”  Then accuse, “You don’t work hard enough.” Or “Everyone needs to be working.”

“White people are obsessed with us.”  Then these very same black males stalk, gang-stalk and conspire against black American Sunni Muslim women who are total strangers and have no interest in them.

“Swirlers are bedwenches and submit to the white man,” when referencing black women who voluntarily enter an inter-racial relationship.  These same black males tout: “White women are obsessed with us, they pay us for sex.” (prostitution) “They want that black ___.”  Because that is something someone should be proud of?  Then they declare “we aren’t fighting against the white man.”

“They’re stealing our culture.”  Then say that blacks “should just die out.  The race has too many problems.”

Gang Stalking: Another Form of Street Harassment and It’s More Prevalent Than You Think (UPDATED)

This entry was originally posted in January 2018.  I updated one portion of this post which is highlighted in red below:

My Thoughts on Gang Stalking:  It’s More Prevalent Than You Think

When one thinks of street harassment, it usually conjures images of ‘slick-talking’ black (and West African) males with ‘no game’ who are wickedly desperate and therefore force themselves on strangers; or black male sexual predators who believe they can have easy access to vulnerable members of the general population:  women and children.

However, there is another type of street harassment that goes beyond the normal sexual deviancy of street harassers–gang stalking.

From what I understand and have experienced, it is a system of people (in my case black “Christians” who work in conjunction with the approving cooperation of low-level whites who are just like them) who seek to intimidate, stalk and eventually dismantle the sanity a particular person.  Persons (male and female) who engage in this conduct are total strangers who harbor ill-will towards humanity, but these people have information about this person that under normal circumstances they should not have; i.e., they are not a friend, employer, family member nor someone that I had transacted any business with.

Targets of gang stalking have spoken out tremendously about their experiences have noted that it includes gaslighting wherein the groups of individuals—who mind you do not appear in groups when they target the person engage in a series of activities intended to cause psychological harm and intimidation.  Other than sadistic pleasure they receive from harming a stranger, they seek to destroy the person based on what that person has that they don’t. Yes, it is primarily based on envy, but there is something more sinister in play:  their goal is to undermine the mind, achievement and talent of their target because quite frankly they do not possess those characteristics nor the wherewithal to achieve them.  I find this acute among black Americans and West Africans.  When they cause harm to their target(s) they will literally laugh and mock them in broad public, give threatening looks, pretend to ‘bump’ into their target to gauge their response to external, negative stimuli (which includes strangers for NO reason walking too close behind you and very audibly “sucking” their teeth or loudly “hemming in hawing” as a means to announce their existence in your presence and hopefully intimidate and/or aggravate you; or pretend to know the stranger in order to legitimize the lack of morals, intelligence and success they have in their own lives.  You will also find that they will provide the same excuse to justify their deviant behavior in both street harassment and gangstalking such as “she crazy” or the variant “I told ya’ll she crazy”, “I ain’t thinkin’ ’bout that b***** ” or “pssstsh you ain’t all that” and “so the f*** what.”  Look at this video especially starting at 29:38:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4jJebz5dsA8.  This is their entire point of harassment and gand stalking towards targeted individuals.  This is often accompanied by an insidious smirk or hysterical laughter which to an ordinary, reasonable onlooker appears to be what it is–out of context of normal social situations and “off.”

Others have indicated far more nefarious motives behind this type of criminality. They indicate that targets are often political dissidents, highly intelligent or are considered non-conformists.  One thing I have noticed with black “Christians” who perpetrate these crimes is that they often sit in their cars or on the side of buildings staring at their target and are always transmitting their observations via their mobile phones to other members of their gang stalking ‘group.’  They are dangerous and evil and agents of Satanic worship; this despite many of them who profess their “love” for Jesus Christ. Many people have awaken to the understanding that the person referred to as demonic will not take offense; those individuals will even laugh at the reference because they know it is accurate. It must be noted that these individuals are usually the purveyors of slander and are reminiscent of their historical black “Christian” predecessors who did the same to much more prominent blacks; just for money, approval by powerful individuals and to satiate the gaping dissatisfaction that fill their lives due to their own personal failings and lack of success. Thus, we can see that gang stalker also perform these acts on the job with the primary desire to rid an individual whom they believe is a potential threat to their own position, status or simply self-worth.  This should be considered a health crisis, but that would require Americans to actually admit the United States is filled with so many narcissistic dangerous individuals that it is better to keep the general populace under the grips of these dangerous persons.

Stalking is, just as harassment, illegal, but it remains a constant reality in American daily life.  It is better that these criminals are exposed rather than such maladaptation of human behavior becomes an ever-growing portion of the normalization of social dysfunction that plagues this country.

The Pitt News: Pitt students condemn catcalling

https://pittnews.com/article/127683/arts-and-entertainment/pitt-students-condemn-catcalling/

Pitt students condemn catcalling
Joanna Li | Staff Writer
February 14, 2018

As a 12-year-old, Sophia Marshall stepped out of the house feeling confident in thePA map
outfit she had picked out that morning. As she waited for a friend by the local high
school, she heard a sharp whistle from out of the window of a passing car — her
first experience with catcalling.

Marshall, now a junior business administration major at Pitt, recalled feeling conflicted at the time — a mix of validation and violation.  It wasn’t until she came to college that the instances of catcalling became more frequent for Marshall — happening on the bus, her nightly walk home in Central Oakland and during her summer abroad in Paris — causing her to feel fed up.
“I’m not your baby, I’m not your honey,” Marshall said. “You don’t know me.”
According to a Cornell study, 85 percent of women experience street harassment before age 17 — and some women in Oakland are in that majority. Walking in groups of three or more, carrying pepper spray at all times and knowing a few self-defense techniques are all tips in the back of the minds of some women who have experienced street harassment at Pitt.

Marie Skoczylas, a visiting instructor in the Gender, Sexuality and Women’s Studies
Program, offers a definition of catcalling and its effects.
“Catcalling is singling out a target for sexual objectification and commenting publicly on
that person’s appearance,” Skoczylas said. “It requires a sense of entitlement to pull a
stranger into that kind of situation, knowing the advance may well be unwelcome and
insulting.”

Catcalling is part of the larger issue of street harassment. According to “Stop Street
Harassment” — a nonprofit organization focusing on ending gender-based street
harassment — street harassment can range from unwanted whistling to sexual assault. As Skoczylas explains, there’s a fine line between a pleasant interaction with compliments and harassing words that are disrespectful in nature.
“Rather than taking the route of trying to criminalize behavior, I think we need to focus on a cultural shift, changing attitudes so that we see each other as individuals to be respected rather than objects to harass,” Skoczylas said.
Sophomore finance major Casey Maher experienced catcalling in Oakland one night in
August. She walked to upper campus to meet with friends to watch a movie, but a friend
made a last-minute cancellation. Maher found herself alone in an unfamiliar place.
“Some guys pulled up next to me in a car and started yelling things out the window, like,
‘hey girl, get in the car, let us give you a ride,’” Maher said. “It made me feel really
uncomfortable and I had my hand on my phone to call the police.”

Carolyn Helenski, a sophomore communication science and disorders major, has
experienced catcalling in multiple cities. She recalls an instance with her mom in
Philadelphia that was particularly memorable, saying it was very degrading.
“One time I was in Philly with my mom for the afternoon, and a young guy was with his
friends on the street,” Helenski said. “When my mom and I walked by he said, ‘look at that nice, tight pussy in those pants.’’’
In this uncomfortable position, Helenski had an urge to stand up to the man, but her mom told her to act as if nothing had happened and just continue walking.
“Catcalling isn’t pretty when someone is trying to embarrass or harass you,” Helenski said.
“I went to say something, but [my mom] told me to just keep walking — which frustrated
me because a woman I look up to more than anyone didn’t feel comfortable standing up for herself or me.”

Other women in Oakland have experienced harassment from older men, not just fellow
college students.  Close Morgan, a junior who asked her last name be omitted for privacy, was walking back from her class in the Chevron Science Center when she stumbled into one such case as she passed a few construction workers on the sidewalk.
“As I got closer to them, I noticed that the one guy was staring at me,” she said. “Right as I
walked by, the guy who had been looking at me a little too long turned his head and said
‘hey beautiful,’ and watched me as I kept walking down the street.”
Morgan said she didn’t think much of the situation — she just smiled and continued
walking down O’Hara Street to Fifth Avenue, enjoying the compliment she was given.
“What was initially nice became super creepy when I was stopped at the crosswalk by
Thackeray,” Morgan said. “The same man popped his head out of the passenger side of a
white pickup truck and said, for the second time, ‘hey beautiful’ as his buddy kept driving.”
To avoid another encounter with the man, Morgan ended up taking the longest route
possible to get to her destination — an inconvenience for her to feel safe.
While Marshall continues to take her chances striking up conversations with strangers, she said she draws the line between friendliness and street harassment at a stranger’s ability to read context clues on a situation.
“I’m not trying to say that no one should talk to anybody else,” Marshall said. “I am saying that you need to respect my privacy, and that includes no shouting, no name calling.”
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Another Point to Ponder: Part III

Another Point to Ponder:  Part III

Have you noticed that among blacks, in particular ghetto, black, entitled mentality, foul-mouthed vagrant black “Christians” are the primary sociopathic bullies of other blacks? Whether in the hood, in the office, public thoroughfares or at the grocer these often photodark-skinned blacks plagued with Attachment Disorder expose their narcissism by targeting productive, talented, intelligent blacks?  One can easily dismiss any need for further analysis and just say, “I guess that’s how they were raised,” which is indeed an indicator of their social dysfunction and failure to integrate into reasonable society.  These ill-mannered, foul-mouthed black males come from certain households in which their black mamas excuse, justify and coddled them into believing this is acceptable behavior.  Regardless of the initial triggers (whether it’s nature, nurture, a combination of both or inherent evil), one can readily witness when those same blacks see their targets become successful they are the first ones to bemoan on various social media platforms how successful blacks “never did nuffin’ for blacks” or “don’t help black people out”?

 

Where do these reverse-logic negroes derive such audacity to be awarded for negative, criminal behavior that they directed to members of their own people.  Regardless of your personal beliefs or observations of their lifestyles, the primary focus is to analyze their experiences with blacks (their own people) and how it caused them to separate from them in a sense.  Let’s take a look at couple of examples:

 

Oprah Winfrey:  She started off as a journalist, became a talk show host (The Oprah Winfrey Show, The Oprah Winfrey Show: The Next Chapter) and now a media mogul (O Magazine, Harpo Studios, OWN network).  She stated that early in her career that in Baltimore, they did not treat her right.  That’s no surprise where certain dysfunctional mentalities are considered normal by those who possess them.  As a child, she was abused by black “Christian” members of her family.  Surprise, surprise, ghetto black “Christians” mistreating members of their own race.  These same types are inexplicably beleaguered when she becomes a founder of a school for the development of African children in desolate areas to the dismay of those same entitled blacks who demanded that she invest in Baltimore City Schools—the same city of blacks where she was mistreated.  One can estimate that as a child in the South, she was likely  teased about her appearance by other blacks—yet these same kinds of blacks believe their superficial commonality on a color spectrum dictates that she owes them something despite their years of abuse towards her. NEXT.

Will Smith:  He is known from being from Philadelphia, Pennsylvania and from a tough neighborhood. He began his entertainment career as a rapper with DJ Jazzy Jeff.  Then he pursued  an acting career and became the lead actor on the television program ‘The Fresh Prince of Belair.’   Thereafter, he progressed to become an in demand Hollywood actor. Despite his circumstances and at the urging of his mother, he tried to focus on his lessons. He said that black boys (ghetto black “Christians”) bullied him for studying and would knock books out of his hands when he walked to and from school as well as beat him up.  It reminds me of the comedian Chris Rock’s joke with the overarching topic of N*#@!# vs. Black People in which he assailed disruptive, inner city, entitled, destructive blacks who declared “Don’t come to me with that readin’ and writin’ s#@!….countin’ these rocks b@yaatch.”  He is now successful, and the hood rats have gotten the hint that he would never associate with them or their types.

…and even when a black person decides despite their upbringing and abuse by members of their own people, to “give back” to his “community” he realizes that it was a waste of money and a bad investment to redeem neighborhoods plagued with the ghetto black pagan “Christian” mentality of entitlement and self-destruction.  Let’s review the example of ex-NBA basketball player Derrick Coleman whose investment into these types of communities heavily contributed to him filing personal bankruptcy:

https://blogs.wsj.com/bankruptcy/2010/04/09/ex-nba-star-derrick-coleman-files-for-bankruptcy/

Derrick Coleman made $87 million, now files bankruptcy

But wait, there’s more.  These ghetto black pagan “Christian” vagabonds will verbally abuse, yell expletives towards female strangers, Sunni Muslim women of their own race, disrespect their elders and street harass, assault, rape and verbally abuse black women in general; then exhibit no qualms in playing the ‘black man is victim’ card and demand all blacks and broader society support them. Pretty pathetic isn’t it?  Yet, this core group of nonsensical blacks cannot comprehend when decent members of their race and the broader society does not want to deal with their nonsense and foolishness.

It’s called having standards.  Theirs are apparently nearly non-existent.

lightbulbPerhaps we all need to re-read ‘The MisEducation of the Negro’ by Carter G. Woodson, in it the author historian explains that as blacks strive to improve their own circumstances, attain higher levels of understanding, as well as those who are already inclined to clean living, a natural rift expands, culturally and spiritually between decent blacks and those who seek to destroy the former –the crabs in the barrel mentality. Some refer to it as the separation of the chaff from the wheat, the productive useful portion of the population (at least in theory barring external factors such as the economy and institutionalized discrimination) become elevated on different levels, while those bitter, entitled criminals and black devils stay in the same position that their sick mentality bore them.  They cannot and will not be successful because of their own conduct, yet will demand those who attain such levels to feed their entitlement that they were reared in via welfare, black pagan “Christian”, entitlement because I exist, “all I know is,” don’t take personal responsibility for their actions and black male privilege, coddled, mindset.

 

The Blob

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Decent black and broader society must remain steadfast and on guard for because the  will attempt to devour members of their own community first.  Just think of the 1980’s movie ‘The Blob’ and how it seeps to engulf any crevice of structure and remnants of civilized society until it destroys everyone in their path including themselves.  Now that is something to ponder.

 

 

This is Jeopardy: Street Harassment Edition

Welcome, to Jeopardy: Street Harassment Edition, on the board we have common categories addressing the epidemic of black “Christian” street harassment of others.  Let’s take a look at the board and contestant no. 1, you may choose any category to start off:

 

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Another Point to Ponder….

Just something to think about:  black pagan “Christian” male street harassers (as well as photothose of other races) will verbally abuse, accost, sexually-street harass in broad daylight and in public black women minding their own business.  These same black males will, without impunity, brag about their misdeeds and criminal behavior on social media platforms such as YouTube and attempt to justify their right to violate the rights of women. Now, isn’t that something? But wait, there’s more.

NBC logoYET, these same black “Christian”  criminals with their flawed excuses and wicked desperation pretend to be offended and as a result will threaten and disrespect their victims who on various social media platforms expose, vent, discuss these criminals for their acts of disrespect including but not limited to: street harassment, sexual harassment, gang-stalking, accosting and verbal abuse.  So where was the black male’s shame and embarrassment when you were actually street harassing these women in public and violating their constitutional rights and public safety? You commit criminal acts in public, thus you revealed who you really are—a typical criminal.

Let us ponder this:  In the view of the black male sexual deviant it is somehow offensive to them and wrong for a woman to expose these criminals for what they have done in

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the PUBLIC?   This is what we refer to as “ghetto black Christian” logic. It makes absolutely no sense, except to those who were not raised to be a part of or those who choose not to be a part of reasonable society.

Based on an ever-increasing body of proof that these types of black males (also dubbed ‘coons’) are the primary purveyors of Neanderthalism, misogynism and gender-based discrimination  when it comes to decent, everyday, law abiding black women who try to live their lives like any other American without the offensive disruption at the hands of these sexually deviant miscreants.

Think about that for a minute.

(Note:  It’s simple and repulsively erroneous and basically a fallacy: to black males ala single black “Christian” motherhood and the entitlement welfare mentality, women of color, in particular their vaginas are public property and as being a part of the general public, believe they should have access to them.  As crass and descriptive as this statement is; their own actions have demonstrated such. They hate black women and find a self-indulged and sinister joy in disrespecting them every opportunity they see.  Yet, at the same time, need the very women whom they stave off. These are the low-level crab in the barrel blacks who seek to destroy anyone they set their eyes on.)

 

PART II: (When Blacks Attack and Rape their Own Daughters/Sons & Mothers: What Chance do Victims of Their Street Harassment Have?) Now for the black FEMALES who rape, street harass and sexual assault men, black women and black children

Rape, street harassment and sexual assault are not only perpetrated by black males but also their black “Christian” female counterparts. One of the most publicized rapes committed by a black woman occurred in Seattle, Washngton in which a two black women picked up a white guy hitching a ride and pulled a gun on him while the other raped him:

· 2013: ‘Cierra Ross, Chicago Mom, Charged With Raping Man at Gunpoint’: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/09/06/cierra-ross-charged-raping-man_n_3882608.html

Another instance occurred when a black “Christian” female climbed through a white male’s window and mounted him while he slept:

· 2014: ‘Woman charged with Breaking Into Home and Raping Man’: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/09/15/chantae-gilman-woman-rapes-man-seattle_n_5824456.html

These black “Christians” know no bounds in violating another’s bodily integrity and boundaries:

· 2017: ‘Woman rapes man at knifepoint after he makes sex tape threat’:  http://rightwingnews.com/crime/woman-rapes-man-knifepoint-makes-sex-tape-threat/

In Maryland, Washington, D.C. and Virginia, a core group of black “Christian” females harass other black women.  There is a subtle known fact that many of these black “Christian” females are butch or closeted lesbians and seek to hit on, verbally abuse and mock heterosexual women, especially if the latter is modest and religiously clad.  You will witness these black lesbian “Christians” (oxymoron) in their best passive aggressive antagonism, beginning with an exaggerated, abrupt grunt or cough to get another woman’s attention; followed with jumping (literally) in another woman’s face or cutting her off the road or in line.  Some of these black female street/sexual harassers will snatch your hand in the grocer check out line or as you use a computer in the public library.

Black FEMALE street harassers are just as dangerous and sexually deviant as their modern day male counterparts-so decent, heterosexual woman we must take heed of our safety on more levels than one. Many of these black pagan “Christians” are “butch” “aggressive” and “troublemakers because they are indeed CLOSETED LESBIANS.  Their aim is to intimidate heterosexual woman just as much as their DOWNLOW black male cohorts.  Many of these black “Christian” sexual and street harassers pretend to be “religious” thinking any decent woman would let their guard down so they can molest, sexually assault and/or rape you–just like their males intend to.  No normal functioning, well-adjusted adult woman conducts themselves in this manner.  They are delusional, dangerous and attempt to have a façade of a semi-functioning adult who actually contributes something beneficial to society.  They lie in wait, stalking other women, what other than lesbian is obsessed with another grown woman who is a total stranger?  Keep aware of these predators, they are unstable, disgruntled and prone to listen to the whisperings of black males who encourage such nonsense.  They are desperate for approval from black pagan “Christian” harassers who use them up and told them they are nothing; manipulate them (think of Othello whispering into the ruler’s ear).  They are a sick people who are so self-deluded they cannot see how the world views their self-inflicted insanity.

It’s so ironic and hypocritical for American “Christians” to teach children in school that their body belongs to them, warning signs of an inappropriate adult, etc., only to realize that as an adult no rules apply; both men and women will violate children and other women’s bodily integrity in broad daylight, that men will venture to social media erroneously defending their right to touch women strangers and street harass them while bashing other religions and culture. You will find that witnesses will pretend not to see anything or choose not to get involved resulting in lack of law enforcement of crimes as well as rape culture.  So the question must be posited of what chance does a decent, law-abiding, heterosexual, religious woman have against these degenerates when they rape, molest or sexually assault their own children, let alone their neighbor’s? (here is a sample of what has been going on for decades):

·  February 06, 2017:  ‘Woman charged with rape of 4-year old boy’:   http://www.wlwt.com/article/woman-charged-with-rape-of-4-year-old/8680486

·  August 05, 2016:  Fort Lauderdale woman booked on charges of molesting children https://www.local10.com/news/fort-lauderdale-mom-booked-on-charges-of-molesting-her-children

· September 12, 2014:  A black “Christian” female kidnaps and rapes a Muslim girl by dressing in traditional middle-eastern attire; leaves her half-naked for others to sexually assault the child:   http://www.nydailynews.com/news/crime/philadelphia-woman-convicted-counts-rape-abduction-5-year-old-girl-article-1.1937598

· July 30, 2009:

There is no clear or easy answer.  If women aren’t molesting children, they are harassing heterosexual women and making passes at them. This is a great portion and normalized social dysfunction of black “Christian” culture in the United States.  There is no clear or easy answer except preventative measures which includes discerning their traits and characteristics so they may be readily identified as normally functioning, heterosexual women do not conduct themselves in such a manner.

NEWS OPINION ARTICLE:

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2017/nov/27/catcall-street-harassment-misogyny-metoo-girls-women-misogyny

Oi you! Catcallers and street harassers – your time is nearly up                                November 27, 2017   Phoebe-Jane Boyd
It’s usually possible to tell when it’s about to happen. The signal could be a set of dull eyes staring out from the middle of a group of teenage boys. Or a brief smirk. Could be from a man in a suit, could be from someone looking like a grandad. Sometimes there’s no warning, just the prickling sixth sense of “I’m about to be told how my tits are looking today by a complete stranger”.
“Catcalling” is exasperating and humiliating, but something to be lived with if you’re female and you go outside a lot. Racism, ableism, homophobia and transphobia often get mixed into the cocktail of abusive comments, too, and as Noa Jansma’s @dearcatcallers project showed, they come from all ages and all classes. We recipients live with it, because of course we do. There is far worse than words for us to live through out there – #MeToo can show you a sample (only from women of certain economic backgrounds lucky enough to have an internet connection of course). Yet, strangely, a peaceful acceptance of street harassment as “only words” is something I’m yet to feel.

Violence could follow any insult or sexual comment, yelled or whispered, from a stranger on the street

Instead, each unprompted “slut” or “ugly dyke” from people I’ve never met causes embarrassment, irritation, but mostly anger within me. And it’s an anger that doesn’t bleed out; it builds. Latest example (which I’ll forget as new ones replace it): last week in Houston, a man was offering his opinion on each woman who walked by him. One in front of me was told she had a “nice ass”, I was called a “bitch”. I turned around and advanced on him, startled he grabbed at my forearms and babbled excuses. I yelled for him to get his damn hands off of me, until he let go and swiftly left the area, visually resentful.
Despite enjoying humiliating people who try to do the same to me first (I’m a “bitch”, remember), it’s no real outlet for the humiliation of street harassment – it’s a stupid and reckless thing to do. I know that, because everyone who has been catcalled knows that. The words of street harassment fall on a spectrum of disrespect. Violence could follow any insult or sexual comment, yelled or whispered, from a stranger on the street. The words are merely an opening parry, or a hint of how little your rights, or very existence, are respected. Women are still being hurt by people who hate them, everywhere.
The words are nothing compared with what they could be, but are also a reminder of that. They’re intended that way: a smug reminder, a smirking warning – don’t get too comfortable in your life. Don’t think you’re entirely safe out here; you aren’t. The actual message, and motive, behind street harassment is quiet and assured, and that’s why it’s so grating and tiring. Because we already know.
#MeToo is still so dissonant. Is sexual assault, violence, rape culture and ingrained misogyny actually being recognised, openly and honestly, as wrong at last? Are missing stairs not being stepped around any more?
Catcallers and street harassers, however, know they’re maintaining a system of sexism – it’s the motive, and that’s why it angers me so much. In 2015 a survey by Cornell University and the anti-harassment campaign Hollaback! on street harassment found that an international average of 84% of women have been victims of street harassment between the ages of 11 and 17. The 2014 Stop Street Harassment survey also featured some scary (but unsurprising, if you’ve experienced it) statistics of women being “reminded”.
In light of #MeToo, will the upcoming US-based survey report lower numbers of street harassment? Probably not – not yet. I suspect harassers will be offering more messages of the misogyny that still exists in the world for a while. But that’s a signal too – that change is coming, and they know it.
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When Black “Christian” Males Try to Justify Street Harassment it Sounds Like…

Each time an ignorant, sambo, slick talking, desperate, beta ghetto Black male “Christian” tries to justify street harassment.  His illogical rationale sounds MUCH like this:

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Say no to the ignorance

Say no to the sexual predators

Say no to street harassers